I am officially able to join this post
It has been a long and hard battle, watching my weight go from it's heaviest of 195 to staying steady at 165 for years.
When it finally went below 165 it went quick and to the lowest I'd been since my teens. Took me 6mths to drop 30 pounds and be at a happy 135

Some of it was so easy, I broke up wth the father of my daughters and watched the pounds just melt off.
Over the last 3 years it has quietly snuck back up and I was very depressed to see 185 on the scale when I went to the doctors. I knew I had gained weight but that much, I wanted to go in the corner and cry!!!
I am on the start of getting it off and finally keeping it off!!!! I will not be like this anymore!
Sorry for venting, but wanted to give everyone a back ground on my ups and downs this way I can finally get to the down and no more ups!!!!