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Old 10-20-2005, 05:50 PM   #301  
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Hi Lovely Global Gals. Just wanted to gate crash the forum and give a heartfelt thank you for the lovely b-day wishes in the journals. I really, really appreciated it. Here I sit, glass of champagne in my hand, and a warm fuzzy feeling in my heart (and it's not just heartburn from the champagne). Thanks guys. I needed that.

Just another year older and none the wiser, it seems! But that is a story for another day. Take care my friends.
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Old 10-20-2005, 07:15 PM   #302  
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Morning all,

Madcat - how delightful to see you here in our wee corner(s) of the world. Hope you had a delightful day and that you have now exercised off the champagne - either that or you've got enough for all of us to descend on you for a birthday drink. I miss seeing your cheerful posts in the journals and I have lost your e-mail addy so can't catch up.

Happy - sanity checks are free, unbiased and given with love and understanding. Don't all queue up at once! Feeling a bit introspective myself this morning. Not sure whether it is the dying gasp of another year or change of season or what. Maybe because of the gray skies.

Holly - doing well on your journal. May I suggest that you put the affirmations (the to-do list and the mantras) in a different colour, in bold, and in large print. That way you can really see what it is that you have achieved and have yet to achieve for the day. Also not a bad idea to print and stick it on the fridge and the bread bin. Aaaaah bread - the staff of life - and one of natures comfort foods.

Mel - hang on to that doctor, see him every Wednesday as often as necessary. A Doctor that does housecalls!!!! WHAT???!!! Nice of you to share CJ with Willy and the ladies. I'm sure that Linus would be happy for you to share the real thing if you were closer. That way she would be able to get some well earned zzzzzzzz's

Painter - A client is a client. You are on your way back. Like happy says - 90 minutes on the art for every 30 minutes on the business or the house or the garden. You go get them. And who says you can make money out of the art. Set up a website - prevent downloads - and see who would like to buy. There is sometimes a market out there we haven't thought of yet. Dig that ground, mix in some good compost, gypsum to breakup the clay and water crystals to hold the water. Then plant the bulbs. Come spring you can paint the flowers!
And yes Linda's cattle prod is always plugged in. My persuader is ready to travel as well.

Ceejay - are you working hard? Usually see you in here around this time. Have a good day friend.

Hello to Tig, Teel, Linus, Meadow et al.

Well it is Friday, the weekend stretches ahead. Yummy. What's on the menu? A call from Mel - always a welcome diversion, Gym, laundry and ironing, housework, football Saturday afternoon and the kids for dinner - no I am not eating them - maybe the brother will put in an appearance (he rang me yesterday), deciding on what to put in the bag, making the list, putting it in the bag. Figuring that I need some new clothes, buying the clothes, putting them in the bag. Clean the car, pull out some weeds and tidy the yard. Lots of other things.

You know I was sitting here earlier and thinking about all of us - both individually and collectively. There are times when no doubt we hack each other off big time and yet we have not yet had a major row, tossed our heads and retreated in high dugeon to opposit corners of the ring, stormed out and sworn never to darken the thread again. Indeed, although we have had people (good people) who came and went, they went because they figured there was nothing here for them I guess, not because we treated them badly.
There have been times when no doubt I have really annoyed people with my lists, organising, whinging about work, db's, ds's or the cat. Yet no one has ever said anything to me about pulling my woolly head in (great forebearance that). Maybe someone just put a block on my userid until I got over it.
Despite all the cultural differences, personal differences, circumstances distances, time zones and weather we have made it through several years of conversation and constructive criticism, help, opinions and dictatorial statements, pregnancy and pain. It's got to be an achievement. And long may it last, amen.
I sometimes wonder if the friendship, kinship and good old fashioned love between friends is the reason. When you face it, there are on this thread - those with a physical disability (although most would not realise it was there), those who have been through the mill with medical procedures and those who are taking drugs to alleviate pain or diseases, some with children, some who are not married or in relationships, differences in ages, different races, those living in their own countries and those who are 'displaced', some are well educated and some like me are self taught and maybe some who struggle, those with cats and those with dogs.
Some of us have calm personalities, some go through highs and lows with equal enthusiasm and ease, although it must get wearing on those with a calm karma. We have peaceful souls and passive souls, energetic and frenetic souls, worriers and warriors, battlers for the underdog and champions of democracy. So how come we don't have the problems I have seen on other threads and in the journals?

When you get the answer to all of the above - let me know. I'm through with philosophising (sp) for the day. I don't know the answers to life's questions and dang it if I did, the buzzards would probably change the questions.

6 days to go
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Old 10-20-2005, 08:43 PM   #303  
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Whew - good thing I ran by to check in! Only 6 days!! Very exciting!

Hurricane Wilma is being very unforecast-able. I suspect we will get some rain and wind around Monday or Tuesday, but we are on the east coast of Florida so we won't see as much as the west coast. We were planning to go to Daytona for Biketoberfest on Saturday and still may. It's only 90 or so miles away so we can decide at the last minute. We get our hurricane supplies in June so we're all set. And Slim got me a rain suit so I'm feeling brave. If it's not too windy we'll give it a go!

I enjoyed all the singing. And in reply to your question, Shad... is I don't think I've read one mean-spirited word on this thread. My opinion. Not humble.
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Old 10-20-2005, 08:48 PM   #304  
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Mean-spirited words, no I guess not. We have free spirits and those who march to different drums, but not mean spirits. That may be the answer.
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Old 10-20-2005, 09:24 PM   #305  
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Shad~ I agree with your thoughts and I actually dont think that we do bug each other very much no matter the differences. I love and appeciate when others take the time to set me straight or offer other opinions. The bottom line for us, as I see it, is a genuine respect and probably love. I adore each person here for many different reason, I would gladly open my home, share my family with all of you without a second thought. I would give of myself any way I could to offer support and know it would be valued. In the important ways we are alike. We honour family, life, our world, we seek to grow as individuals and move forward...... pretty amazing really.
I do know it is what my life was missing in a huge way and I was asking for it on a deeper level. Some prayers are answered. I feel a true sisterhood with all of you. Sometimes it is a mom/daughter thing, a sis thing, a best friend thing...what ever shape it takes, I am thankful and I do hope that I give a little something back to each of you in some small way.
In the well planned chaos of my life the moments that make me take a deep breath and smile are when I come here to read what everyone has shared that day.
I love the global connection. Keeps life in perspective.

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Old 10-20-2005, 09:46 PM   #306  
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Holly - maybe you are just too nice. There are times when you should hear me swear when somebody bugs me. I left the journals for that very reason and although it doesn't happen so much here, occasionally I dig around in the drawer and bring out the sticky tape dispenser and say things like - here you go Holly - stick this on your mouth and then you wont eat that sugar/ bread/ cheese/ icecream (strike out that which is not applicable) whatever that you have moaned about eating all week.

By the way, I only picked you because you don't think we bug each other. so don't take offence okay.

Can't speak for anyone else, I often talk to you all both nicely and at pitch while I am reading the posts.

But you put forward some very valid points. We need to value these - respect - now there is a word I have a lot of time for. Good one Holly
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Has anyone twigged yet that I don't have a lot to do today??? Of all the work on my desk to do, I have to see 6 people about 9 things and 3 of them are on leave, 2 are in meetings and one is sick, the other has gone awol. Gotta love life in the Ministry!!!
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Old 10-20-2005, 09:51 PM   #308  
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It is with deep pleasure that I read and share with everyone. Don't know where I would be without all the support and rolling eyeballs I find here Everybody put on a tune that makes you want to move, shake your groove thing, shake your bling, bling!







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Shad~ now I am laughing out loud at the computer. I wish you were here with that tape. I coulda used a nudge an hour ago. I ate a handful of crackers. I even went for a brisk walk and drank lots of water first. I was feeling bone weary and emotionally tapped.Not a valid excuse but it is what happened. Maybe next time I will hear your voice and visualize sticky tape and not beautiful grainy, nutty, bread or crackers. LOL!!! See how good you are for me!!!
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Gotta love those dancing chicks Meadow. You are another wonder of this world with your graphics. Hey they have legs like my next door neighbours dh - no wonder he is useless (her words not mine) - insufficient visible means of support.
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Greetings... Here I am, late again. I like checking in with all of you at the end of my day.
Madcat--- Sorry I missed your birthday. Hope you have a wonderful year! So you're a libra, too. Sometimes it seems as if I'm well-balanced, and other times as though I go from one extreme to the other. Cant' decide!

Well, I didn't work in the yard to day... it was back up to the mid80's. I did have more energy than all of last week though... so I am encouraged. I also made arrangements for boarding the cat in November for Thanksgiving. DD is coming from the East coast and we're going on a jaunt to Kerrville, TX. (Quaint... and they have hills there. Bliss.)

Shad-- I don't know why this thread does so well... I know that one of the other ones has had individuals who were easily offended. I think this group either has thicker skin, doesn't take itself all that seriously, or is confident that what other people say doesn't actually define them. I also noticed (before I got STUCK in last week's slough of despond) that there was a guick consensus that all of us would do will to count our blessings. What a help that was. Other groups sometimes have impromptu competitions to see who can sing the bluest Blues.

Meadow... awesome chicks, indeed!

Hockey has started, but the Stars have now lost 2 in a row. :-(

Mel-- On the lists, I prefer to be Paint, Painter, Painty, PW, or PainterWoman.
I'd rather not have any of my paying clients run into me and my neuroses. Things work better if they don't worry about their "helper." you know?

Shad-- I heard tonight at a Halloween program about gross facts about the human body that the human mouth has more bacteria in it than there are people in Australia and Canada COMBINED. I guess Madcat might want to know that, too. I won't share the other grosser stuff!

Hope you are all sleeping well... and that your TGIF is optimistic ALL DAY!
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Old 10-21-2005, 08:19 AM   #312  
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Lovin' the chicks Meadow!

And I see your little egg light shining Shad. Hard to believe that for you, Friday night is wrapping up right now. Best get off the computer and get busy packing and getting ready for your trip. It's coming up soon in case you forgot.

Madcat, lovely to see you pop your head in if for nothing more than an all too short visit. Wish you'd at least post how you're doing as we are all nosy chicks.

Shad you pose an interesting question as to why we all get along. I'm sure we don't always agree with what the others say all the time. I certainly do not hold back when I feel the need to get it out. For me there are some who certainly carry a large sack of troubles on their shoulders. It keeps it in perspective about my own whining. I don't know that we're so entirely focused on dieting exclusively so no competiton there. Just a bunch of chicks from many corners who genuinely care about each other.

2 things that bother me... the first is when people get down in the dumps and pull away and get quiet because they feel that they only have to come here and post happy thoughts all the time. Do not turn away from the much needed support that is here for you. I always feel a sense of loss when people pull back, even if it's for a short time. ***hint, hint to some of you *** We are here for each other in good times and bad.

The second is that I think that sometimes support can be well intentioned but a bit misdirected. This whole diet, exercise, healthy living, way of eating whatever you call it is no doubt a difficult task. For some it's a matter of simply apply themselves and boom, they get results. For others it's hard to give up the immediate desire for the long term goals - I suffer from this extensively. I expect a hug when I'm down but also when I fall into a familiar pattern of no results just extensive excuses, I look to you to rally round and set me on a straight road. It is done with love so no offense taken but I think it does a person more harm than good to constantly support bad behaviors simply because we are afraid to offend.

I think my next challenge should be getting to work by 8am. I sure do fritter away the morning even if I do get up a bit earlier. The race is on, thank goodness it's the last leg of the week. See yah!
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See Happy~ your whole post makes me feel thankful. I LOVE that you say what you feel and aren't afraid to challenge someones words( mine). It makes me stop and re think and make positve changes. Maybe this all works because we are willing to receive the comments with the loving intent they were given.

Maybe we simply are all incredibly mature, wise, brilliant, caring, spectacular, gifted, fabulous individuals. weeeheeee
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Meadow--love all the graphics.

Shad--You are always a cheer leader. I know what you mean about the journals. That's why I like it here because it's more positive. I didn't post yesterday. I needed that entry in the journal for private thoughts.

Happy-- I agree with Shad. We all need sanity checks.

Tig--I hope the hurrricane slows down to a tropical storm. The states have had it's share of those things.

Mel Hope everything is okay.

It's almost cold outside today and it's not suppose to be above the 60's temperature wise. This is my kind of weather. It finally seems like fall. I'll have the window's open most of the day.
Yesterday I had to go to Paragould to a district water meeting that was suppose to meet at 1 p.m. They were serving fried catfish but I just didn't want to eat anything fried and the last time it wasn't any good. When I got there at 12.30 p.m., the meeting was already in progress, and was finished by 1 p.m. I got to sign the sheet so I'll recieve 2 hours credit for it anyway. I was within a stone's throw of my uncle's but he was still gone on vacation. Stopped by Super Walmart to look for an electric blanket but didn't find any and then came home.
Spent yesterday afternoon working on the finances. I am in so much credit card debt that I think I've been worrying about it to much and been getting sick over it. I have been weighing the pro's and con's to take a financial hardship on my retirement from work, and have discovered a way to not pay the penalty before the age of 59 and 1/2 because I don't own any property and I'm 55. My retirement plan will with hold the federal taxes but I will pay the state taxes. I should come out even by doing this. I have enough money to pay the state taxes. My mind is finally at peace. I didn't want to take the bankruptcy way out of this situation and by doing it this way I'll be debt free by the first of the year. This is a big sigh of relief.

Weighed in this morning at 184, but because I ate a half a bag of potato chip's yesterday on the way home I' ve retained some fluid pounds from the sodium. ugh.

I need to get dressed for the day. Later this afternoon I will need to go pay the light bill and stop by Arlene's office to have her change my address on the pay check.

Have a good day.
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Old 10-21-2005, 05:20 PM   #315  
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My song for the day is "Bare Necessities"

Look for the bare necessities
The simple bare necessities
Forget about your worries and your strife
I mean the bare necessities
Old Mother Nature's recipes
That brings the bare necessities of life

Wherever I wander, wherever I roam
I couldn't be fonder of my big home
The bees are buzzin' in the tree
To make some honey just for me
When you look under the rocks and plants
And take a glance at the fancy ants
Then maybe try a few

The bare necessities of life will come to you
They'll come to you!

Look for the bare necessities
The simple bare necessities
Forget about your worries and your strife
I mean the bare necessities
That's why a bear can rest at ease
With just the bare necessities of life

Now when you pick a pawpaw
Or a prickly pear
And you prick a raw paw
Next time beware
Don't pick the prickly pear by the paw
When you pick a pear
Try to use the claw
But you don't need to use the claw
When you pick a pear of the big pawpaw
Have I given you a clue ?

The bare necessities of life will come to you
They'll come to you!

So just try and relax, yeah cool it
Fall apart in my backyard
'Cause let me tell you something little britches
If you act like that bee acts, uh uh
You're working too hard

And don't spend your time lookin' around
For something you want that can't be found
When you find out you can live without it
And go along not thinkin' about it
I'll tell you something true

The bare necessities of life will come to you
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