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Southern Maven, I understand that because I have the desire to weigh less than I do now that I am not really following IE. But I have no desire to diet, in the way people think of it. I have started eating much healthier food, not because I think they will help me lose weight, but because I have grown to like them. There is no food that I don't eat if I want it. I just don't crave a lot of foods that I used to love. My taste buds have changed. The fact that I'm not losing weight I contribute to eating when not hungry and eating more than I need for satisfaction. I have several medical problems that would improve if I lost weight. Therefore, I pay attention to what I weigh. I want my health to improve.
I know that my body would feel so much better if I got back to exercising, but I just can't get it going.
Carolr, there are people everywhere who will tell you how they lost weight and you should try their plan. They do mean well, but each person has to do what is best for them. If resisting things causes cravings, then you don't want to resist. It won't be helpful to you. Think of that item you want to eat. Eat it when you are hungry, enjoy it, and stop when you are satisfied. You just might feel satisfied after one or two bites of cake. You know the first bite is always the best! LOL
Sandy, I am one who dreads the thought of exercising. And sometimes when I'm doing it I just want to stop. But if I persevere, my body feels so good and my mind feels so exhiharated when I finish.
Maybe we should start a thread for non-diet people?
I'm not following IE either because I want/need to lose weight, and I AM focusing on that, but I'm not dieting.
I'm doing my own thing...not restricting, but not going wild with food either, and I'm working at eating more vegetables, taking smaller portions of some foods, stuff like that.
I want food to fade naturally into the background and not be something I spend a whole lot of time or energy thinking about.
Maybe we should start a thread for non-diet people?
I'm not following IE either because I want/need to lose weight, and I AM focusing on that, but I'm not dieting.
I'm doing my own thing...not restricting, but not going wild with food either, and I'm working at eating more vegetables, taking smaller portions of some foods, stuff like that.
I want food to fade naturally into the background and not be something I spend a whole lot of time or energy thinking about.
I think there are a lot of us hybrids here not only on this thread but on 3FC overall. I suspect all of us have slightly different mindsets about our approach...but we share a common cringe at the word/thought of a "diet" mindset.
Have you guys heard of Kelsey Miller? She writes a column on IE for Refinery29 called The Anti-Diet Project. She just released a book on her journey and I finished it last night. I have been learning a lot about IE over the years, but not committing to it. The book made me see how it can be a path to sanity in other aspects of life as well, and also that it takes real work. The last several chapters were the most helpful in that respect. Anyhoo, just wanted to mention it.
Have you guys heard of Kelsey Miller? She writes a column on IE for Refinery29 called The Anti-Diet Project. She just released a book on her journey and I finished it last night. I have been learning a lot about IE over the years, but not committing to it. The book made me see how it can be a path to sanity in other aspects of life as well, and also that it takes real work. The last several chapters were the most helpful in that respect. Anyhoo, just wanted to mention it.
JayZeeJay, we did discuss Kelsey Miller some time back, so those of us who have been around awhile are familiar with her.
And when I read your post, it reminded me of something I wanted to share with all of you. Kelsey is giving away 10 copies of her book at GoodReads, so here's an opportunity for those who are interested in it to possibly win a copy. If you're not already a member of GoodReads, you can join for free and enter. There are LOTS of giveaways here and I've won several books already, as have many of my sweepstakes friends.
Another "Hybrid" here. I realize that following a diet seems to cause me to think about food way, way too much. I've tried Beck method of Behavior Modification and it helped me kick a couple bad habits.
However, last night as I read a very good book I managed to polish off the rest of the Oreo's. Don't believe that is Instinctive eating, more like a binge.
Would love to exercise but Asthma has hit a bit hard with this cold weather. Back to TV room where it is warm and perhaps try some Physical Therapy exercise to strengthen my bad leg.
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Carolr, I never got into the habit of eating while reading or watching TV for some reason. When I was still working I wore a lab coat at work with big pockets. I always had snacks in my pocket and ate all day. It wasn't hunger...I think that was stress related. I thought I would lose weight when I retired since I don't graze all day anymore, but I am probably eating larger meals now that I'm not having the in-between snacks. I think I'm better off now because I eat healthier foods at my meals now and the things I was snacking on weren't always healthy.
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Carolr, have you examined why this happened? Occasionally I will realize that I am not longer waiting for hunger or stopping when satisfied. It's easy to slip out of that.
Don't make it about the 15 lbs. Make it about doing what you know is healthy for your body. Maybe that wasn't a healthy weight for your body, and this is. Only you know the answer to that. If you follow the priciples I believe your body will find the right weight for you.
