Happy Saturday, my dears!
Got thrown for a bit of a loop last night during a visit to my Bro and SIL's. Elisabeth is a personal trainer and has degrees in nutrition and psychology, so you can imagine that I consult with her frequently on my Journey to Fitness

. Anyway, she forbade me absolutely

to portion out my food based on caloric value, since it's ultimately unsustainable (true at least for me - I sure as **** am not going to count those poopers all my life). So, my new goal for the 21-day challenge is to eat only when I'm hungry, eat only until I'm satisfied, and bulk up with only whole grains and veggies. A much vaguer (is that a word?) and harder-to-police goal that calorie-counting, but I believe that SIL is right when she says that I'd only be listening to the calories rather than my body's needs.

Special note: Don't think for one minute that I'm pooh-pooing other peoples' efforts to count calories or points. No. I don't think SIL is either. It's just that she knows me very well and knows that I haven't listened to my body's needs for a long time. Calorie counting, while a legitimate way for most experienced "dieters" (hate that word) to regulate intake, won't work for someone who'll just use it as a crutch. I've ignored my body's signals for so long that I never do know what it needs to eat, so though this new plan will be more difficult, hopefully it will lead to me being a more sparing and sensitive eater. No offense intended. If I've hurt someone's feelings I'll die.
So, anyway, ladies, on to wonderful YOU.
Zadie, take a hammer to your old scale!!! Cruel, miserable teaser that it was. On to increased accuracy and better certainty in your real weight. Man, if it wasn't giving you accurate ACTUAL weight, it probably wasn't giving you good RELATIVE weight, either (you know, from one day to the next?). We don't call them devil scales for nothing...
Day FIVE, Empress!! You're the shiznit, or whatever. YOU RULE!! You know, your challenge might be "The Thing" that gets me on the fast-track to fitness. Ever thought about that? Huh?
Eydie, dear, what the other ladies said. I've been as close a monitor of your efforts as anyone, and you're doing GREAT!!! Remember that the

scale is only ONE indicator of progress. I'm so very proud of you.
Apple Blossom, great going on the jog/walk! Good luck with the situps. Thanks for being with me, love. Arm-in-arm, marching up the hill!

Wildfire, DAMN. Six pounds?!? (Reminder to Eydie: SEE? You stagnate for a while then the scale plunges. Remember!) You are burning up, girl?

for the Official Monday Weigh-In.
RedBalloon, do you work out outside or in? If out, this rain must be really cramping your style. Do laps around the ark if you have to. I'm waiting in suspense to hear about Day 5...
SleepyAngel, come back and tell us how you felt after giving up all that canned sugar! You're doing a wonderful thing for your body.
Ramon Report

: My partner is the sweetest man on earth. When I put my head on his shoulder and whined for a minute about how I WANTED to count calories because that's the only time I could remember the pounds dropping off the scale

, he kindly reminded me of that one summer when I lifted weights and walked a treadmill every day, and sort of "watched" what I ate, and I dropped the pounds just as effectively then and looked great. Isn't he lovely? I swear, sometimes those significant others say something perfect, just what we need. I guess it's why we keep them.
Love to all,