HI girls,
Popping in to say hi and I'll write more later. Just wanted to say to Cathy that I love #2 but agree with Em that a bit shorter would be very sexy
I'm having a problem with my sisters MIL and emailed her last night about the fact that she invited extra people to the shower that I'm co-hosting with my sisters best friend. She didn't ask and she didn't tell anyone she was doing it until after it was done. It's at least 8 more people. I was pretty stoked last night and fired off an email and am waiting for the fall out. I'll post it and maybe some of you Mom's can let me know if I was too far out of line. I guess I should have waited to calm down before I did it. When will I learn?
Here's the email...any advice would be welcome.
"Hi,
Janet mentioned earlier tonight that you had added some additional guests to
the guest list that Janine had emailed out. It sounds like at least 8 more
people than we had planned on are invited and I am a bit distressed about
this as neither Janine or I was consulted on this. I feel that if you were
concerned about the guest list you should have called Janine or myself to
inquire if more people could be invited.
This is the guest list that Janet gave to us and it was sent out on her
wishes that these be the only people invited to her shower. I do not feel
comfortable with the idea of changing her wishes.
Our house and yard are a decent size, but from past experience we have found
that 20 people is pretty well the limit. If the weather isn't nice enough
for us to be inside, we will be very cramped with even only 20 people.
I know this email may seem brusque and I'm sorry to be taking a hard line on
this. It's not my intention to hurt your feelings as I know you love Janet
with all your heart. We really don't have the room for 30 people in our
home. As well, given that number of people the opportunity for Janet to
visit with everyone will be limited.
In speaking with Janet and Janine, we feel it would be best to have 2
showers for Janet. One with her friends and family (including you), and one
from your side.
Frankly I don't really see another option.
Pam
Hope all you guys are having a great day. Painter Woman it's nice to see you back posting and congrats on the first 10. Post so we can get to know you better.
Thanks,
Pam