After a month of seriously mourning my most recent relationship, I too made a profile on POF and OKCupid. And I've been talking to one guy on each site (legit talking, ignoring all that nonsense like "hey I'd like to tap that") and today I agreed to meet each of them. So I'm meeting one Saturday and one Sunday. They both seem super nice and are into some of the same things I am, so hoping for the best. I'm trying to be optimistic, and hope I have a good time both days, cause what's not to love about me, right? But I've never casually gone out with more than one guy at a time, so if it comes down to it, I won't know what to do if I like them both and they both like me! But I'll burn that bridge if I come to it. Wish me luck!
brooksrm: The same thing happened to me during my online dating craze. I was talking to 4 guys at one time and went out with each of them and gradually ended up with none due to various factors such as douchebagness, things fizzling out, etc. However, I'm wishing you best of luck. I'm hoping it works out and eventually one stands out over the other? Either way let us know how it goes.
naija-- That's exactly why I am talking to more than one instead of just pinning it all on the first guy I talk to. So far they seem nice (I'm still talking to them so duh) and I'm being optimistic but at the same time, I'm waiting til I meet them to make my opinion of them, and to see what their opinion is of me. I am kind of nervous though.
Ok did no one think this guy was a little bit creepy??????
I'm sorry the whole soulmate thing is creepy... I've met a lot of D-bag guys online... I've heard them say a lot of stuff....they say all kinds of stuff...
Also yes you stalked his facebook... Guys know that us females are stalkers...he knows you're going to check on him... I just find it a bit creepy...but thats my two cents.
Ok did no one think this guy was a little bit creepy??????
I'm sorry the whole soulmate thing is creepy... I've met a lot of D-bag guys online... I've heard them say a lot of stuff....they say all kinds of stuff...
Also yes you stalked his facebook... Guys know that us females are stalkers...he knows you're going to check on him... I just find it a bit creepy...but thats my two cents.
I think you meant to post this in the other thread mentioned above. Could be wrong though
Yeah, I think you did mean to post there Haley.. out of curiosity, I went to read and most definitely concur on the creepy factor. Just my thought, of course I'm not the one conversing with the guy so I don't know for certain what he's like.
I met a few duds, and one of the dates ended up with me walking away with a handshake to the guy's fallen face lol.. I felt so bad.. but I have limits!!!
After that date, I met my fiance, and we have been together for 3+ years now, getting married next July. I met him on Plenty of Fish!!
OK SO what happened to the original poster!!??? IS SHE OKAY I mean the last thing she said was "I'm going on a date with a total stranger" Maybe it is just me, but I'm getting kinda worried...... I would think she would have updated us by now.....
Good luck on your dates, brooksrm. I have recently rejoined the single world and am having a pretty good time. I have learned a lot more about what I do and do not want in a person.
