My stepdaughter is only 11 and a chubby little thing. Her mother and father are both overweight (and me of course!) and she and I have talked about her weight a number of times, altho of course slightly easier to talk to an 11 year old than a 20 year old about it. Her mother blames us! We have her 4 days a month and it's our fault! The school nurse has threatened her mother with calling child services (it's counted as child abuse these days to have an overweight child!). My 14 year old step son is also chubby but a little more active than his sister. His problem is, if he finds some sweeties, he will eat the lot (before breakfast). Example: a few weeks ago I treated my self to a box of After Eight Orange thins...wasn't being as strict as I am not but I would have had them for weeks as my treat. Bought them on a Saturday, went to bed not thinking left them on the coffee table...got up Sunday morning, Larry had got up first and there were FOUR left!. Now, we don't do that, I have since found out he does it at his mother's house and she hides everything. Could she not have told us this? It's something he has started doing recently, I'm told it's 14 y o hormones...I don't believe in those kind of hormones....lol We noticed he ate a lot of sweeties over Christmas but when I was a kid, sweets got left out and were eaten...it just didn't occur to me that he was shovelling them in...all at once!
I hope I have made enough of an impact on my stepdaughter about not turning into an overweight adult, she's seen my weight go up and down, she saw her parent's marriage fall apart cos her mother lost weight and got herself a toyboy then put all the weight back on again...
I have to stop rambling when I am posting...
Hugs to all
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