I want to wear the size 4 denim skirt in my closet that hasn't seen my hips in 3 years....I also want to be able to wear a 2 piece bikini like I wore in my early 20's.....but this time with the boobs I have now.

BTW, I've been kicking my x-Husband in the groin and punching him (and his mother) in the nose since Billy Blanks made his first Video......

(great thread, really enjoyed reading everyone's postings)

twistedhoneydew, that's really poignant. I can relate - I have a grandmother that died while my mom was pregnant with me, and everybody always tells me how much I remind them of her.

There are some AWESOME ideas and goals in here! Ballet, martial arts, personal trainers! I love them all.

I can totally relate to so many of the goals posted here. I do have one goal that hasn't been mentioned--I saw a picture of a woman sitting on her butt with her legs and feet pointing straight up and her head touching her knees. I totally want to be able to do that. I practice it every so often and every time I get just a little closer. I also would love to be able to do the splits, but I'm not sure I'll ever have that flexibility. I haven't even tried.

It's true--I secretly try on my SO's jeans from time to time just to see if they fit. It's been a while, maybe I'll try them on again tonight. :devil:

Weighing less than him was also a huge goal for me. I also would love for him to be able to pick me up, but he has back problems (eats junk, never exercises, still is stick thin, go figure :dunno: ) so this is never going to happen. My trainer at the gym will often hold my feet up when I do triceps and one time he made a comment about how light I am; I swear, I practically got tears in my eyes.

Check this one off for me too. When we were small, I was thinner, but from high school on, she was thinner and guys were always more interested in her.

Secretly fantasize about being Sydney Bristow: check!
Look hot for my age: yep, definitely want that!
Have someone at the gym comment on how great I'm doing: yep, want that too!
Wear a swimsuit and feel good about it, yep, definitely want that!
Run a marathon: wait, no, don't want to do that at all, but you go girl!

:lol: Barbara, I'm with you on the marathon comment! And how many of our goals overlap!!

I also secretly want my grandma to tell me to eat more because I'm getting too skinny in that grandmotherly way :o (I wouldn't actually be too skinny, it's just her way of saying "you've lost weight, so indulge in more of my delicious food!") haha

oh!

i also want a guy to pick me up! physically pick me up and carry me!

I'd love to run a marathon and wear a bikini..but obviously not at the same time! :rofl:

I ride a motorcycle, and the forum I'm on has a yearly get-together in Montana. I've gone the last two years, and both years I've been at my heaviest weight. I want to show up this July and not have anyone recognize me. :-) I haven't told anyone I'm losing weight. I just want to see the looks on their faces when I ride in.

You know, I took that for granted until you said it was your secret wish/goal. I'm literally swung and tossed around by both buys and girls and I get so annoyed easily because I can't lift other people, but now that I think about it... maybe I shouldnt take it for granted. In a few years I might just be a bit heavier...

:lol3: haha...awesome

:rofl: :lol3: :lol3: :lol3: Come on, why not?! We could make millions having a bikini marathon in the streets of NYC!!!

Or find yourself on youtube with millions watching your boobs. :p

I relate to so many of these. I’m glad the goals aren’t just my own.

Here are my top 4:

Be thinner then my sister (who has always been the thin one in the family). She would be so upset if she found this out.

To wear a little black dress (and make it look good)!

To wear cute underwear and look cute in it.

To be picked up by a guy (I can’t remember ever being thin enough to be picked up by a guy).

I agree... so many of these goals are similar to mine... I think I would like to be picked up by a guy while wearing a bikini! I am desperate to fit into a bikini by April when i go on my honeymoon to jamaica... and actually feel comfortable in it!

I'm totally with you guys on the bikini thing...on the beach, on the sand...ahhhhh. OH and i really want to be able sit without a whole roll of fat resting over my jeans.

And I thought I was the only one in some of this stuff.. it's cool to know you aren't alone.

I was just looking yesterday for a little black dress I'd love to have when I reach goal. Me and my bf were talking about clothing but I don't remember about what. Anyway, he said I had no style. I was offended at first but I started thinking about it.. he's right, I don't. I've, for all my life, have worn big t-shirts and jeans because I couldn't find anything to fit me that I really liked. I'm excited about getting my own style finally;). So many things I want to wear that I would never have dared to before. So many Victoria's Secret clothes I'd like to wear...

I've always secretly wanted to be a fitness trainer but never have dared to tell anyone in fear they'd just laugh because I wasn't fit.