Happy - one has to do, what one has to do to survive and strive for peace and happiness. You have to weigh up as you say distance to help, support and family along with ambience, living conditions and security. It is not a decision to be taken lightly.
Laura - my sister is very fond of quinces and things like that. She makes jams and marmalade out of them. I think she has them and feijoa (guava) along with lemon bushes in her yard.
Glad to hear that the family is sort of getting it together again. You don't have to understand or approve the way things are. That's up to the people who have the loan understanding.
Ceejay - sugar substitutes? well I always say that natural is best and provided you don't over do it, moderation is always effective. Some of those substitutes leave a nasty aftertaste. Anything that has that bad aftertaste can't be good for you.
Annie - glad to hear that the weekend was great. You deserved that time away. And didn't some of that food sound decadent

No I haven't heard from all the relatives yet, but don't want to get in the way of rescue efforts and I daresay they are all trying to salvage what they can, get the farm back in shape and try to save the wheat crops and round up the animals etc. They will be in touch when there is time. There are no deaths reported so I am not panicking.
Mel - Earthquakes aren't the most inspiring part of Mother Nature, but they happen. Christchurch will pick itself up again and get back on it's feet. Yes there are some huge cracks and holes. One was big enough for 9 people to fall into!!!
Mind you they were drunk at the time. Must have looked like lemmings all toppling one after the other into the hole. Wish some one had caught it on camera.The expresso martini was nice. However at $16 a pop, they are a real treat. And no I wasn't really just a bright happy drunk after it.
As far as the job goes, it was more for my sanity than their budget. I am just not made to sit around and do little all day. So I would rather take on some more work at home and get that out of the way before the weekend comes than sit here and twiddle my thumbs. The money is important, but not the be all and end all.
Hope you get all your banking stuff sorted asap.
It's a beautiful day down here. Spring has definitely sprung. We don't get much in the way of bulbs or blossom, but the trees are coming back to life with fresh lime green leaves and the gardens are looking greener. I didn't bring a jacket to work today since I generate warmth walking along the riverbank. Someone asked if I was freezing (at the coffee stop) and couldn't understand why I said no! I've been watching a bearded dragon on the riverbank. He has been there for the last 3 or 4 mornings. He was up on the rocks near the path, but now he has moved down to the waters edge where he gets more sun. Interesting critturs. I did take a couple of photos, but don't know how they will turn out. I'll try to remember to process them when I get home tonight.
And with that I had better go look at this doco one more time. It seems to have snarled itself up over night and lost it's format and is repeating itself. Not sure how that happened but I'm about to go check it out.
See ya.

GOOD MORNING CHICKS.
AFTER THE 3RD ALARM THE COPS WERE GETTING PISSED OFF.
AS A GIFT FOR TAKING ON HIS CHORES.

I AM SAME AS YOU WITH WHOLE FOODS TOO. WONDER WHY I KEEP FORGETTING THAT??? 

I CAN'T SEE YOU JUST SITTING THERE EITHER DOING NOTHING WHILE STUFF AT HOME COULD BE GETTING DONE. MY MIND IS ON MONEY THOUGH RIGHT NOW
HOPE YOU HEAR SOMETHING SOON FROM THE RELATIVES.
I WISH THERE WAS A VIDEO OF THE PEOPLE FALLING INTO THE HOLE TOO OF THEY WERE DRUNK
WAVING TO MICHELLE...HOPE THE BACK DIDN'T GIVE YOU FITS OVER THE WEEKEND AND YOU TOOK IT EASY!!!!
but that will come soon enough. 
BAD BAD BAD!
I'm surprised to hear you're considering retirement in New England. I thought you had enough of the snow. It is a lovely state though. I've got relatives that live in NH, as well as some that live in VT and MA. I love New England, but you gotta watch out for those Nor'Easter storms. I remember growing up in Vermont (near Burlington), in NH (near Concord) and in Massachusetts (near Gloucester). Northern Vermont winters are rough...but maybe if you stick to Southern NH, you won't have it too bad. Sugar substitutes don't bother me at all, thank goodness. But I am noticing how many sodas are going back to sugar from high fructose corn syrup. Mountain Dew has a throwback version that is made with sugar and is FABULOUS!!
A BIT OF RAIN FOR TODAY AND THEN THE WEEK & WEEKEND ARE GOING TO BE GORGEOUS!! 

HOW GREAT IT WOULD BE TO VACATION IN CALIFORNIA!! WHAT A NICE INVITATION!! THEY WOULD BOTH LOVE YOU
SAD TO HEAR THE COVER IS GOING ON THE POOL. JEN AND I ARE TRYING TO PRETEND WE'RE NOT COLD IN THE MORNINGS!!
AND JEN SAID SHE IS READY FOR YOUR MOVE TO THE NORTH TOO...SHE IS SCARED OF THE CHANGES IN PEOPLES ATTITUDES HERE AS WELL. SO MAKE THAT 2 MORE BEDROOMS PLEASE!! RICHIE CAN HELP WITH YOUR DH THE HANDYMAN STUFF AND HE'S A GOOD COOK ALSO
HIS BACK IS STRONG STILL. PUT HIM TO GOOD USE!!