Jay - you speak my language!

I fought "tendonitis" in both shoulders, so severe that DH had to help me get my shirts on, for 7 years. You name it - steroid shots, physical therapy ... and I finally demanded an MRI. Came back totally normal. Out of desperate anger, I went to a local chiro who was doing free exams and Xrays. When he put up the Xray of my neck, even I, an utterly untrained layperson, went, "WTF????" and he went, "Oh my God." It took about 8 months, and it did get even worse before it got better, but I've been salvaged.

It certainly makes getting more active a lot easier!
allinel and loser, I think I look better with lighter hair ... but DH, after a few drinks to get his courage up (apparently) made it very clear that he did not find it at all attractive. It would be counterproductive to continue. Heck, he even preferred my 100% gray to the blonde. Who'da thunk? Glad he said something though!