I am so down in the dumps about weightloss, it's not even funny. My WW season pass ends on April 10th and I think I am going to end with it. I have been paying for WW since May 1998. I am still down about 30 pounds from my top weight, but until I can be willing to do what it takes to slim down, all the WW meetings on the planet will not assist me.
Some people use weigh in as an incentive, but it's gotten so that I don't care if the scale shows a gain or not. So that's not even working for me. I know the plan, backwards and forwards, but until I am willing to follow the plan, it isn't going to make any difference so why spend even more money. I used to say that sitting in that seat every Monday morning kept me from gaining it all back, well, that may be true, but it isn't making me lose any more either.
Weight Watchers Works!!! I know it works! I'm just not working it right now!
I'll be back later when I can be more positive. Thanks for letting me dump here.
hi to all you ladies here after a personal invitation from thinthinker i thought id drop you all a message my name is kirsty and i live in edinburgh scotland im married {15 years}have 2 lovely sons ages 14 and 11 and iam 32 years old i only decieded to lose weight 4 weeks ago and found this place which due to a death and various other problems has been my sanity
i normally post on uk chicks and focussed which has now become around the world and have met such a brilliant group of girls i need to lose weight for my health my sanity and because i think im ready to admit i might be killing myself here i was addicted to coca cola {2-4 litres a day} which i think ive managed to quit my starting weight was 234 and week1 a loss of 4llb week 2 a loss of 10llb and week 3 a loss of 4 llb but i think that was all the coke so im joining ww next thursday just to keep the ball rolling my dh and i worked out i am now the lightest i have been for 12 years and people are already noticing that somethings different i dont think they want to say are you losing weight incase im not but anyway due to a dodgy spine im getting really un comfy now and will sign off
once again thanks for the invite hope i havent bored you all to death
speak soon
kirsty
Good Morning Girlies! YAY!! It's Friday. It's a yucky, rainy day here -- is the sun ever going to shine again????
I just got back from acupuncture. I went 3 times this week (yes, my bank account says "OUCH"!!). It's difficult to understand how laying on a table for an hour with needles in you helps, but I have felt better emotionally this week than I have felt in a really long time!!! I haven't felt irritated at hubby, I haven't cried at all, I didn't even lose my patience with the work fiasco yesterday morning! So, I am sold so far on this treatment. We'll see if it continues to help when I start the major fertility drugs a week from today!
Pat - WOW! Somehow last night I didn't see your 6 pound loss! CONGRATS!
Blue - Since my gym only has yoga 2x a week I also picked up the Yoga for Dummies tape. I haven't tried it yet, but I'll let you know....
Terri - I hope you get a good report from the Dr. today!!! I have to say American Idol just hasn't grabbed my attention the past couple weeks. I have it on, but am not glued to it. I was bummed that Amy was kicked off this week.
Andria - I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. Whenever you are ready to talk you know you have a lot of willing listeners and shoulders to cry on here! My thoughts and prayers go out to you for you upcoming biopsy. Stay strong!
Barb.g - Hello! I am glad you took a moment to check in even though you do not feel well. I hope you perk up soon!
Judy - Welcome back!!!
Thin - Big Hugs to you!!!
Linus - WELCOME!!! It's great to have you here! Great job quitting Coke and Congrats on your loss so far!!!
That's it for me for now, I need to work....I am going to yoga again tonight - let's see what torturous positions I can put my body in!
don't have time to read or really reply, but I just wanted 2Cutte to know I was really mad at her!!!
I woke up this morning crying because I was dreaming I was having another baby (yes, I'm a grandmother too!) and they had given me this big shower, but I didn't get any of the basic things, like car seats, high chairs, etc, cause after allthis wasn't my 1st baby. So then I was going to get them from my sister whose kids are much younger than mine, and she had sold them in a garage sale!!!
What a Dream!!!and it was 2Cutes's fault for that April Fool joke she played on all of us gulible ones!
There are so many replies that I'd like to make, but as usual, NO TIME. Turns out, my FILs surgery was cancelled again, rescheduled for next Friday. Now, Dh wants us ALL to out next weekend. Friday to Monday. To California. I realize that he's thinking that this may be the last time we are all together with his family, so what can I say? It turns out that we are all off that weekend, kids are both off Friday and Monday...somehow, it seems like it was just meant to be.
I can't imagine how much these tickets will cost. IF we can even get any at this late date.
ANYWAY...like I said, there are so many replies that I'd love to make...and hopefully can make later...but right now, I just had to say to THIN, who is always there for every single one of us, whether it's with her detailed replies, (for which she takes notes so she can remember everything!) or the lovely cards that she'll send at just the right time, or with her skill as our fearless moderator...I really hate to see you down! You are one of those people with such powerful presence, that when you're not "on your game," it somehow tilts the balance for the rest of us! Not trying to lay a guilt trip on you, dear....but whatever it takes, let's get you UP and MOTIVATED and back on track!! LET'S ALL DO THE SAME!! Come on!! If you've been slacking on exercise, get out there and take a walk! If your eating hasn't been the greatest, get on over to the salad bar! Fill up that water jug! And go look in the mirror and tell yourself that I'm doing this, not only for myself, but for THIN, and for all the rest of my 3fc cronies!! Come on!!! We can do this!!!!!
Hey everyone. Well, I just got the nicest PM from Thin welcoming me to the group. ((Thin)) Sorry to see you struggling right now. What can we do to help with the mindset & motivation? I've failed in the past because my head wasn't in it, and the body followed suit, and believe me, this is the hardest thing I've had to do so far. I give everyone here a heck of a lot of credit, just for fighting the good fight every day.
Good news- I didn't get stuck with Jury duty- called in & was lucky enough that they didn't need anyone today, so I'm clear for the next year, at least
Better news- the 2.2 pounds that showed up for no good reason right before the end of the month disappeared just as quickly as they showed up. Grrr. Thanks to them I couldn't claim 20 pounds for the month of March. At least I have a head start & 2 pounds down for April.
I've got to get caught up on everything happening around here- I'll catch on soon- I promise! Have a great weekend, ladies!
Foot doc - Can start phasing out of the aircast. Must wear walking shoes. Can walk dog wearing the cast. Can't go barefoot or do aerobics. Can do stationary bike. Need to relearn how to walk. Happy!
Now to the replies:
Kat - Thanks for the word of encouragement. It is true that when one or more are having trouble being focused, others tend to follow. Not that its anyone's fault - just that we kind of become co-dependents. Sometimes, I feel bad posting that I'm doing well because I don't anyone to think I'm bragging while others are having a hard time. I think we needed your words of encouragement or more like orders to get back on track!
Thin - Sorry you're having trouble with your focus. Definitely been there before and have felt that way about WW many times. I've thought about it recently but am too afraid to quit totally. But you do have to find what you're willing to do and what you're willing to totally commit to. Maybe WW isn't the right thing for you now - maybe Curves can help. Just don't QUIT!
Hi girls! Thanks for everyone's thoughts. I'll figure this out.....eventually. Just can't see putting anymore money into it since I KNOW exactly what to do, I just need to DO IT!!!
I have a nice day planned for honey and I tomorrow. First I need to be a "showgirl". Then a trip to Costco is in order. Then as evening approaches, I made reservations at a local steakhouse that is offering dinner theatre. Then I have a hotel job for tomorrow night. We really need a good night away, so I thought this was a nice opportunity. Gotta pamper the boy since I'm going away on my own in a few weeks.
For any of you that don't spend enough time on the dang computer now as it is, Suzanne has installed a FREE arcade area. So, here is the link to FREE games: http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/arcade.php
Hope you all have a wonderful weekend. I love ya bunches.
Good Morning Ladies!
I hope everyone's Saturday if off to a good start! I just finished watching a couple episodes of 24. Now I am getting ready and DH and I are going to Costco and then to a friend's house - she's having an Open House Tupperware party. Later today I am thinking about painting some woodwork - but I am not really motivated enough to do so. I've been really tired and had a horrible headache the past couple days.
Well, last night I went to yoga again - different instructor. All I can say is... I TRIED!!! And, I don't think I'll be going back to that class. I spent nearly the entire class just praying it would end!!! I think I may stick with the videos I bought for a while. I am by no means discouraging anyone from trying it --- actually I encourage you all to try new classes. The one on Wed. night was challenging, but I loved the instructor --- I will take his class again. The one last night was not at all relaxing it was more stressful and painful! I modified many of the moves, which was fine. I wasn't embarrassed at all, just didn't enjoy it.
That was enough of a ramble for me....DH just walked in the room and wants to get ready to go!
Has anyone missed me.
I am really really swamped right now. Nowhere near as many of you here... but too busy for me to keep up. LOL
My main problem is PROCRASTINATION. I procrastinate until I can't any longer and then I work non-stop trying to catch up. Well... it is catching up to me faster than I am catching up on what needs to be done.
My brother and his wife and two of his 5 kids are coming for a visit.
I do not have a thing in this house to eat. I just get sooooooo mad at myself for procrastinating so much.
Anyway... the reason I am taking a minute to post is to let you know I will be missing until Sunday night probably.. and since I haven't been posting much already.. I didn't want anyone to think I was AWOL. My computer is in the guest room so I won't have much access to it.
I apologize for not repling again... but I have not even read lately either.
I will have a lot of catching up to do.
Love you guys.... keep the ship afloat while I am gone.
Hey ladies!!
I haven't been around in a couple of days because I've been away (for my birthday). Although the trip went sort of bust because we kept getting lost. We drove down to NYC yesterday morning (super early)..and what should have taken four hours ended up taking more than six!!! So we didn't even catch the train into the city until 12:39, which meant we didn't get to grand central until almost 1:30.
Ok I need some reassurance because I feel out of control...both yesterday and the day before that was HORRIBLE FOR FOOD. Thursday night we had a big turkey dinner and I ate so much I felt like I was going to burst at the seams. I even had a piece of cake, and I don't even really LIKE cake. Then yesterday I ate TWO MEALS at McDonald's on the go..and I had hamburger. I also had a brownie and a YooHoo at the Museum of Natural History. Will someone tell me that I didn't do too bad?? After introducing all that junk back for the day, I feel like I want to go out on an eating binge. I'm worried because I keep getting urges to eat when i'm not hungry, and I had been over those urges for weeks!!!
Kat, Thin, Terri, Barb, Blue, Paperdoll...and everyone else who wished me happy birthday...yay!! Thank you It's nice when people remember it. My best friends in the world (from college and high school, my random jobs in the City) all remembered which pleased me. I got so many e-mails and Instant messgeas yesterday and the day before . We all have an understanding, I don't need presents, just a simple Happy Birthday or card will always do.
2Cute: I wasn't here to miss you!!! But I just read your post and you actually had me fooled..it didnt even occur to me that it could have been a joke. Actually the first thing I thought was: "wow she's taking it well..I wonder if she's keeping it?"
Blue: You know I'm such a dork, I think the opposite...to me food always tastes better if I am not the one preparing it!! ...I've never had raw turnip before...is it really good? Thanks for the recipes though I'm going to have to try them out..especially the turnip idea, and the shredded mushroom one..I usually eat them sliced Oh, and congratulations on the weight loss, girl. It's so cool that you have a doctor you can trust, many of us dont have that. I certainly dont have a doctor who would let me come in and get weighed..I too am too fat for my bathroom scale STILL. The day that scale reads my weight I'm going to celebrate.
Paperdoll: I'm with Blue on the tae bo thing. I've done it before, and I've actually injured myself doing it. You have to be careful about the repetative extensions that you do with your arms and legs because you could easily pull or strain something. I ended up hurting my leg doing something like tae bo, and let me tell you..nerve injuries take a long time to heal so I am still learning this painful lesson months later.
Andria: The best thing about this community is the anonymity and I know you will get so much advice and support if you wanted to share your problems with anyone. I myself am having horrible problems dealing with a recent breakup with someone who is also my best friend in the entire world. What made me proud of myself though, was that instead of turning to food for comfort, I've been doing what you're doing..staying on program and counting every morsal I put into my mouth (accept for Thursday and Friday of this week...GAH!) We're here to help you get through this
Thin: I've seen you get like that before...what we all need to remember is that this isn't a phase, and it's something we all need to do, and face for the rest of our lives...so it has to be livable. I don't think there is such a thing as a diet that doesn't take you back a step for every two that you gain. But don't give up completely. Don't give yourself a reason to chastize yourself. Formally going off of weight watcher's sounds like more than a step backward and I think you will regret it when you realize that you're throwing in the towel on all the hard work you are still doing. You are still 30 pounds down....please reaffirm yourself while you are still ahead.
Kirsty: Yay!! I was always hoping we could get someone from the UK to join us. My boyfriend (er, ex boyfriend now i guess, we're on a 'break' ) is from Newcastle...not THAT far from you...by US standards anyways
Anyways, I THINK I got everyone...gah..what a day this ...I need to stay away from that fridge, I just opened up all my old habits yesterday, and I think this is the point where all my old diets would fail because i'd keep up the bad habits. I'll keep you guys updated on what I do.
Today was a lazy day. Worked hard this morning, DH worked at the fiberglass plant all day, so when we quit at 2:00 I took him some lunch, the called my mom and we went "shopping" There is this one store that is a plus size outlet. It is really a close-out/overruns type store too. We can sometime find real bargans, sometime not. Today I got 2 WeBeBop long tunic shirts for fall/winter for 5.00 a piece. It's a standard joke at our house that I go shopping and put things in the closet and take them out later so I can say they are not new
Anyway that's the highlights of my weekend. Hope everyone else has a great one.
"she's back" (poltergiest)
What's going on ladies? I have missed at least 6 complete threads, so I am way behind.
Just call me dumpy! 
i need to lose weight for my health my sanity and because i think im ready to admit i might be killing myself here i was addicted to coca cola {2-4 litres a day} which i think ive managed to quit my starting weight was 234 and week1 a loss of 4llb week 2 a loss of 10llb and week 3 a loss of 4 llb but i think that was all the coke so im joining ww next thursday just to keep the ball rolling my dh and i worked out i am now the lightest i have been for 12 years and people are already noticing that somethings different 
Barb
At least I have a head start & 2 pounds down for April.
ya bunches.
. We all have an understanding, I don't need presents, just a simple Happy Birthday or card will always do. 
