[Eliana]

I get jealous on decade threads too, but hadn't really thought about it before. They do show me how dreadfully long I hang out in a decade. And it's definitely hard to see someone who started AFTER you surpass you and hit goal.

It's nice to be able to say these things, isn't it? Yeah, we're jealous little beings, but we're also incredibly supportive little beings.

[Arctic Mama]

I haven't posted in one of those decade threads for just that reason! Maybe that will change down the road, but in general I have to pick my group support and challenges carefully or I start getting competitive, jealous, and oftentimes disillusioned that I couldn't lose the weight as well or fast as someone else. For me, I really need to avoid time-based goals, if at all possible!