NEW YEAR!! FEels Great. I dont know i feel really good about starting this diet and iam excited. I just want january to be over fast since i will be done school. That way i have more time for my diet and my slef. This time i know i wont fail. So here is to my 6th day on my diet.
Stick with, you can do it. I read your previous posts and I know how hard it can be when we have weight issues. I've lost 30 lbs. and partly because I removed certain foods from the house.
I don't deny myself anything, I just eat smaller quantities. I know I can't go to the store and buy a dozen doughnuts because I will eat them. If I want something like that I just buy what I think I need to eat at one time. If it's not in the house I'm not going to worry about it. Also I've replaced high fat food items with a lot of lower fat high fiber ones. You can eat well and have fun on this journey. Best wishes.
LOL well Beginme I dont think it was part of a larger problem i think i just ate for no reason or just when i was depressed, BUt i think i have a grip on that now and i dont need help. I got all the help i needed here in 3FC from the people who supported me and helped me. Anyways i havent dieted and i dont plan on dieting anymore. I think iam just going to eat everything but in small portions and in the end of january i want to see if it this worked and if i have lost any weight. I am not aiming to lose much but just about 5lbs a month or so. ANd i will starting working out as soon as the holidays is over.
Hi Chick In the Hat! I am glad you still come to check on my progress. LOL yes i thought it was a bit harsh as well. Just because we eat doesnt mean we have to go to therapy.
Well I must admit i ate a lot today. I was doing really well BUT Then 2 hours ago i ate a lot of chips and 3 oatmeal bars that chocolate covered ones and i also had lots of popcorn so i think i must of ate like 3000 calories today. I hesitated when i wrote 3000 but iam just guessing i think those last things i ate must of been a lot of calories. I dont feel too great i have been doing really well. I did good for a week and today was my 8th day but i messed up. But iam not really beating my self up i know everyone has a bad day and tomorrow i will do better. I havent weighed my self to see if i have lost anything and i am not even sure how many pounds i started with but iam just going to wait untill MOnday thats when i sign up for a my old gym again and i can weigh my self then. Also this month i am not really dieting because i want to do this whole dieting thing when i am done school which is the end of january so i only have one month left. Well less than that. Then when February comes thats when i start really work. I think then i will also have more time to take care of myslef.
Well, Lose25, maybe after January you can get serious about it, 'cause you're not serious now. I say that 'cause you don't know how much you weigh, and you don't know how many calories you eat. Well--it's not a program that leads to much success, IMHO.
I JUST DONT GET IT!! I Mean what is it that make me eat so much? am i an emotional eater or do i just eat for no reason????? i mean is it my fault that i eat so much or is it my mother's fault who buys anything and everything that is full of fat and sugar?????? I was doing so well for a week then all of a sudden yesterday and i today i have been eating non-stop. I mean what iam doing to my self and what i am i doing wrong?!?!?! Did everyone have this much of a hard time when they first started and wantedto lose weight? BUt iam not so new to this i have been trying to lose weight since september! i just feel so useless and iam also feeling like a huge failure! I mean isnt 5 months enough to get me started on this diet or life style!! I am just exahusted and i dont even know what to do anymore. I just have this huge fear within me that i will just gain more and more weight and wont be able to lose any of it!!! :@
I JUST DONT GET IT!! I Mean what is it that make me eat so much? am i an emotional eater or do i just eat for no reason????? i mean is it my fault that i eat so much or is it my mother's fault who buys anything and everything that is full of fat and sugar?????? I was doing so well for a week then all of a sudden yesterday and i today i have been eating non-stop. I mean what iam doing to my self and what i am i doing wrong?!?!?! Did everyone have this much of a hard time when they first started and wantedto lose weight? BUt iam not so new to this i have been trying to lose weight since september! i just feel so useless and iam also feeling like a huge failure! I mean isnt 5 months enough to get me started on this diet or life style!! I am just exahusted and i dont even know what to do anymore. I just have this huge fear within me that i will just gain more and more weight and wont be able to lose any of it!!! :@
Alot of people ( myself included ) eat for reasons that have nothing to do with being physically hungry. If you think this is your problem then it's something you will have to explore within yourself. What are your triggers? Is it stress? Boredom? Anxiety? Once you know what sets you off it's easier to catch yourself. Everyday I catch myself wanting to eat if I'm upset or tired or stressed about something. It's a hard habit to break and it doesn't happen overnight. But, being more aware of what is driving you to eat can help.
Secondly, you need to stop beating yourself up so much. If you slip up you need to forgive yourself. Beating yourself up only makes you feel worse than you already do. You can't change the past, only the present and the future. So, forgive yourself and move on.
Unless your mother is holding you down and putting the food into your mouth, it is not your mother's fault.
All sorts of suggestions have been made in all these posts, but you don't seem to have taken any of them. Go back and read what people have said to you. Choose some of the suggestions and do them.
What more can we say?
I'm sorry you're having such a frustrating time. Maybe you should talk to a school counselor or see your doctor. It's hard for everyone not to eat whatever they feel like, whenever they feel like it, but that's what has to be done.
I'll have to agree with JayEll's post. I will add however, the reason you may 'feel' like eating non-stop after eating well for a few days is because your body is adjusting AND you may not be eating the right combination of foods to sustain your bodies needs. Yes, you have to cut calories, but you also have to eat the right amount of protein, carbohydrates and fats in order for your body to not feel starved.
Unless your mother is holding you down and putting the food into your mouth, it is not your mother's fault.
Jay
I agree with this 100%. Despite the enviroment or triggers at some point we all have to accept responsibility for what we CHOOSE to do. I don't mean for this to sound harsh, but it's the truth.
Everyone eats more than they planned on, sometimes. The key is to stop once you realize what you are doing and not give in to the idea that "Well...I've blown today - it won't matter if I keep eating even more"
And I second the advice that you have to stop beating yourself up. You will get to goal...just not quite as quickly as you may want. Pick yourself up and get back on plan.
I won't beat over the same bush and repeat what everyone else said, but it seems like you've fallen into a few pitfalls of "Common Weight Loss Mistakes" ~ a great eDiets.com article:
I say that 'cause you don't know how much you weigh, and you don't know how many calories you eat. Well--it's not a program that leads to much success, IMHO. 
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