Wow. Good info and food for thought, everyone.
My husband, well that is a bag of other issues. My son is 6, so he learns by his father's example. He is very sensitive though, and when I told him things like that hurt mommy's feelings, I thought he might cry. Too bad my husband isn't sensitive to my feelings. Anyway....the task at hand.
I know I am probably not getting enough water, and I think you gals have something with the 'natural' foods. At the beginning, I was loading up well with veggies, etc., but I get a monthly budget, which unfortunately does not last. Two weeks in I ran out of everything (fresh produce wise) but iceberg lettuce, which isn't the most nutritious of lettuces, and that's about when I saw nothing come off.
I know frozen meals are not the best, but they have helped me understand my portions. I have gotten better at portioning my dinners (which are home cooked), and realizing that I don't need two + cups of cooked spaghetti to feel full.
I have panic fits about sugar too, and tend to avoid fruit JUST BECAUSE it has sugar. I know, it isn't refined but ever since I did SBD in 2004, I am paranoid abut my grains and sugars.