Thanks for all the input (&welcomes) You guys really are great. I'm going to pat myself on the back a little.

I've decided that maybe I shouldn't approach this in my mind as a DIET. Nasty little 4 letter word.

I did well yesterday with my portions & food choices. & if any of you knew me you would be amazed at these next 2-I exercised for 1 hour (weights & dance dance revolution) & I actuallly drank 64 oz of water! I hate water! I have to say I'm proud of myself, but that is one day, now I have to repeat the process.
Petra I know you're right. It is sooo mental for me. I remember when I lost around 90 lbs a few years ago, I felt such a change just making up my mind that just because the food was in the cupboard didn't mean that I had to eat it. Don't know if it stems from something in my childhood, but it's almost like I have to eat that now if I want it or it will be gone & I can't have any. Does that make sense? Crazy huh?
Well, I think until I do my research & figure out what works best for me I'm going to revert to what I tried before. Counting my fat grams & cutting out sugar. Gave me great reesults, but when I fell off the wagon (for various reasons) I found it so hard to get back into it & on track. Time to go "whole hog"
Have a GREAT day ladies! Last day off of work & have a ton to do.