[lodyangel]

Good morning!

I do have an order of protection against him, and they didn't do anything about it. He had his aunt and some friends lie to cover his butt, and the police wouldn't arrest him. I went and talked to the county attorney and he filled out an arrest warrant, but then proceeded to tell me that since he had all these witnesses that he probably wouldn't be convicted. I had one witness my Mother and statements from members of my family where he had been calling me, pictures of my car where he did $800 damage to it, and they still don't want to do anything about it! I swear I think he could kill me and get away with it. I am so sick of this crap. I wish he would just leave me alone.

I haven't been walking...I have been too scared to. My muscle tone in my legs has already decreased. I have got to get back on the ball, and get to moving my butt.

I hope everyone has a great weekend! I think we may go camping at the lake. Get away from psycho boy for awhile.

Love you guys! Stay safe, happy, and healthy!

[1fralick]

Oh my god melody, I am so sorry. I know that doesn't even begin to help. Start writing evrything down as it happens and go back as far as you can. You will be prepared when you are in court, and you will look polished and organized. Do not underestamate him. Listen to your heart. Are the kids in counseling? Are you in a position to put some money away? Just in case? Take care my friend. When you go to court suggest that he undergo drug testing and get an evaluation for substance abuse and must comply with teh recomendations. That should keep him busy.

Hello everyone else!!
Thanks for the congrats
Vacation alomost over
Thank God, I can get back on tract!

[nasus40]

Melody get away!!! enjoy your weekend! (I hope you are already gone) I do not know what to tell you at this time. like pat says tape everything and tape your phone conversations too. they are not admissable in court i think but they will help somehow. keep one of those little recorders on hand if you can they do not cost much at wally world. let your machine pick up all the phone calls and screen them first. keep a caller id record too.

and do like pat says the drug testing too!!!

we are here for you.

[lodyangel]

Hello everybody...

No i did not get out of this town like I had wanted. My Mom didn't want to go camping. Honestly, i was afraid to leave the house unattended, and my dog....Josh wanted the dog back and i am scared that he is going to try to steal him. He's my dog, my dog had him, I took care of him, I fed him, and walked him....he never did anything with him. I wouldn't let him have custody of my dog anymore than I would let him have custody of the kids. He's a useless b*st*rd. I haven't heard anything from him though, and I hope I don't. I think that he will eventually just ffade out of our lives and that is what is best for me and my children.

I still haven't done anything...exercise wise yet. I just am in a rut. I did get in my sisters pool and run around it a few times. And this morning I helped coach my 4 year olds soccer team. That absolutely wore me out. It's over 90 degrees here. The poor things were so hot and thirsty. They did not want to play at all.

If I was financially able I would probably take my kids away for awhile, but I don't. I am about as poor as you can get. I try not togo anywhere by myself...I can not trust him, and I am not going to let my guard down.

Thanks for all of your advice. I probably will not get a chance to get back on until Monday. You ladies have a great day! You guys are in my heart and my prayers...keep me and the kids in yours.

Love you guys!

[nasus40]

Melody sure glad that you are keeping on top of things. I wish things could be different for you. finances can be very hard. and keep the puppy, and the house if at all you can but the house is the most disposable thing when it compares to the kids. hopefully he will just fade out. but if he does rattle the door knob then keep all that pat has said in mind like the drug testing and complience. Do not worry about the exercise right now. do little things in the house like lift the soup cans and stretch. tae bo is great too and the kids like to get involved in that too. You are always in my prayers!!!

[lodyangel]

Hey! Where is everybody????

Things here are good. Did not hear from loser this weekend. I just wish he would drop off the face of the earth. He didn't call my sister to see the kids...he hasn't sen them in 2 weeks. That is just fine with me.

I didn't keep the house. I can not afford it, and my name wasn't on it, so I let him have it. Since he is jobless he will probably lose it anyway...loser...

I did get to walk/run on Saturday. I tied my husky pup (he's 4 and a half months old and almost as big as his DADDY) to the front of Trini's stroller, and then we went for a walk...or should I say run. The dog pulled her like she was nothing...up and down hills. He would take off running, with me hanging on to the stroller, he would get going so fast that the front wheels would come up off the ground, and Trini would just cackle! She loved it. It was alot of fun. We will definitely do that again.

I took Trini's bottle from her...she's 17 months old, it's well past time, and she is doing great....she only asked for he "BA" once yesterday, and Mom called to report that although she has been grumpy today, she has not asked for it yet...so far so good.

Tonight I am hoping to walk again, and do some crunches...get this flabby belly tight.

Well guys...I hope you all check in soon! Sue as always thanks for caring! Love you guys!!!