Welcome PhoenixLosing!
Definitely take a look around ^_^ I found I could spend hours here reading through the motivational and helpful posts from everyone here, and it always helps me get out of whatever schlump I'm in if I'm feeling less-than-motivated.
There's even a specific forum for weight loss surgery, if you wanted to read up on some of their stories =) Check out all the different forums, and different methods of weight loss, and see what fits your lifestyle! The hardest part, which is choosing to get healthy, is over ^_^ Everyone here will cheer for your wins, and motivate you when you think you've hit a wall. You Can Do It!!!