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Wow what great conversations everyone! Very insightful bunch of ladies we have on here and how wonderful! I too think thre's some underlying 'something' as to the reason I did what I did last week but I don't know that I knwo where to even begin to start. We're going to be starting an EAP at work January 1 and I probably will want to take advantage of it. I can have a personalized 'coach' to help me if I needed it. I think that soudns prety cool! Until then, maybe I should seek out the counseling at my church (which I don't go to at all any more). I sought it out about a year ago and never actually followed through on it. They may be able to point me in the right direction. I really want to lose the rest of thsi weight AND keep it off of me forever!!
Keiko, thank you for your kind words! I often forget that I have been OP for six months. I just thought I'd be done by now (like they said I would) but alas, I'm still plugging along. I'm going to enjoy my party tonight and eat my cake/ice cream and start fresh tomorrow! I wonder if I'll feel like exercising tonight...hrm . I bet I'll be exhausted after having 15 people here and cleaning up after they're gone :) there are times when I look in the mirror and see the same ole fat self but i'm beginning to see the lighter version of me and saying, wow, you are looking better. I like seeing myself better in my clothes of course:) I love being able to wear a sweater dress with BOOTS of all things and getting the old men (I work at a retirement center) to whistle at me :) LOL It does make me feel good. Plus ya just know when you look good, ya know ladies? there are days when I know I'm having a good hair day and it shows in my attitude. I'm sure we all have those days. Thanks again everyone! You truly have lifted my spirits and made me realize again that I'm worth it and need to do this for ME!! Cheers eveyrone (raising my water glass to you all)! |
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Good Evening All!!! Wow I missed so much while away on my girls weekend in Las Vegas....I absolutely agree 100% on what has been mentioned about struggling with personal conflicts to why we have gained the weight and how we continue to struggle even with success on the scale...for me even after loosing 50 pounds and still having 30 more or so to go it is a struggle everyday. I know we are all so hard on ourselves and forget to love ourselves and congratulate ourselves for our accomplishments...for instance...all the pictures I took this weekend with my friends, of nearly 30 years, all I saw were imperfections in myself, ie...how my stomach looked bloated in my LBD and this made me look 3 months pregnant, how my chin still was doubled even slightly... etc...how utterly stupid...really...I lost 50+ pounds and do have more weight to go and am working out to pulled myself together...but hey I do not see the thinner arms, neck, butt, or wearing a size 8...but only narrow in on the bulge in my middle...why on earth do we do this to ourselves!
On a happier note I had a fabulous time in Vegas, and happily ate the whole time off program, PLANNED, I tasted everything I wanted to but did not eat more than 2-3 bites of anything that was off program...everything tasted divine...and I kept saying to my friends WOW this food is so delicious, like I haven't tasted food in years...I guess being on program for nearly 8 months with a little break in the summer...anything off program tasted out of this world...but what I learned was all I needed was a bite or two to be satisfied, unlike before I would have the whole dish plus more. I had planned on having gin with diet 7-up or diet tonic, but none of the establishments I went to had this and the only diet drink was diet coke...so I ended up having gin with reg. tonic and wine. oh well I am flushing this out with water. I truly had a great time and feel great about my choices and know that tomorrow I am back on plan and had planned on doing a week of Meta-Quick and look forward to it, I loved my vacation and will step on the scale tomorrow morning and will take whatever it gives me, knowing I can live and loose using tools that are realistic with life. PS - I uploaded a picture of me in my LBD for those that have requested...it is in my profile pictures...enjoy and no I am not 3 months pregnant :)...just a stubborn mid-section... Have a great week on plan! |
oooh, genell, that LBD is gorgeous and so are you!! you look amazing, i'm glad you had such a fun time. :D
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You look fabulous! I'm so glad you had a good time in Vegas. When the snow flies here in Nebraska, I wish I was living in the 'valley' again! Be proud of your accomplishments. And just consider the few little imperfections you see as 'battle scars'! Congratulations! -- JJ |
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Thank you for all the compliments, you are all so encouraging and wonderful, and I truly feel blessed to share this journey with each and everyone of you! I stepped on the scale this morning and was up 2.5 pounds...yeah, I was fearful of the big 5 to 7 pounds. So on Meta-Quick today and hope to get this off in a couple of days...mainly water weight from the alcohol and salt...just dropped kids off at school and will lounge around all day, no running, just to recover from Vegas :)
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GWE, you look fabulous in your LBD!! It sounds like you had a blast with your friends and you did better than I did with just your 2-3 bites. I totally binged from Tuesday through yesterday and was up a total of 8 pounds. But I, too, am doing MQ for 7 days and hope most of this weigth will come back off. Again, you look great and way to go!!
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I'm a couple days late responding so someone may have already suggested this... try mixing your clear with the shake- the orange is great with the vanilla shake and the mixed berry or orange with the chocolate. They get a little foamy but if you let it set a couple minutes it should go down a bit. :) |
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Hi GWE140, I think you look HOT in your LBD. Keep up the good work. No you DO NOT look 3 months along. Glad you had a blast with your friends in Vegas and ate what you wanted for the occasion and didn't come home feeling guilty..Hey after all "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas". (being off plan)..lol |
Hello everyone! I started my beige plan today (preconditioned last week) and I am rearing to go! I have been reading a lot of your supportive posts and wanted to introduce myself to everyone. I am currently in Colorado, a divorced parent of a beautiful 5 year old daughter, and work full time. I am hoping to lose between 80-90 lbs. An MRC center opened close by my home so I thought I would check it out and I signed up on the spot. This is definitely a plan I can stick to! (That is my goal!) I am looking forward to getting to know all of you and be as supportive to others as possible. Thank you for reading and hope to "meet" you all soon!:)
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BTW- GWE140, you look AWESOME in that little black dress! Just wanted to comment...you look beautiful!:)
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Noahsmama, I'm in HR too... so I absolutely know what a bad HR day is like. I feel for you sistah.
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