HEY LILYBELLE~
Don't let "one bad apple spoil the whole bunch girl!"
Being a christian, I am all for giving to charity or your church during the season of Christ's birth, however, I feel giving to charity in the name of your step-monster kids would be done more to hurt them than benefit the charity ~ although I will say that that is something "I" would do!!
Personally, I feel the best thing to do would be to include them in everything just as you are doing your own children, buy them nice presents, just as you are doing for your own ~ if they don't show up (all the better!) too bad for them....take the high road dear...it will pay off at some point..
don't listen to
TECHWIFE...she is evil
...she thinks too much like me!