Trish, I agree that the not eating all day is what keeps BS thin. However, my friend eats 3 meals plus snacks at night. Her meals are very very small. We would call them snacks.

. She eats things like cottage cheese, yogurt, finger salad. She rarely cooks unless her son is coming over for dinner. I told her she is lucky she lives alone and has no one she has to cook for. If I was alone I would be thin but I'm not ready for that! I will continue to work it out with DH.
Son in law is a big eater but step daughter says he only eats dinner. Today is step daughters birthday. She is 53. DH feel very old that his baby girl is 53.