Star I'm so sorry that had to happen to you, how awful.

WHOLEY CRAP! I would have freaked weather it be a man or woman, no difference, what she did to you was so very wrong. Gee I'm so terriably upset for you. You need to call her and set her strait (no pun intended).

I think I would avoid hanging w/them again, crap who needs friends like that.

ICK !!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry everyone I did read your posts and I will post more later

Leenie: Set her straight!

Honestly, I'm just hoping that she doesn't remember any of it. I like the whole idea of "let's never speak of this again"

I talked to DH and he remembers more of it than I do. He thought it was funny. UGH!

Well isn't that just like a man, and isnt' that most of their fantasy's ick.

You do whats right for you lady.

Star: Remember when you were sick and you wished you were born a lesbian......now's your chance!

Thought for the day:

Men are like a fine wine. They all start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with.

No brainer, Star. If you see her again, tell her in no uncertain terms you are straight and not interested, and then tell her that you and DH don't want to see them, hear from them, or have anything to do with them or you'll file harrassment charges. Remind her that you tried to be nice about it and that the alcohol consumption didn't make it okay by any means. Be swift, be mean, be ugly as **** and scare the crap out of her. Believe it or not, something similar happened to me YEARS ago with my ex and we found that being nice only led to them trying it again. Being nasty doesn't mean you're homophobic, it just means you're acknowledging that nicely saying "NO" didn't work. It's absolutely no different than if a man were bothering you.

Don't be too upset about this. You're a beautiful gal and nice as ****! Now practice being beautiful and *****y! LOL

OMG Star! I cannot imagine! I would be totally freaked out too! I have to agree with Paula though! Firm and *****y! OMG! ICK!

Paula - WTG with the wedding success! I am so proud of you!

to everyone! I dont have too much time today again! Today the kids and I are making Biscotti from scratch. (My Grandmother's recipe again!) Can you tell I am getting ready for easter? I love biscotti, but I wont be tasting these. I need to have enough for the holiday!

Got my run in today and some weights too! 3 days for three days this week!

Star: OMG I am sitting here with my mouth hanging to the floor on that one. I think I would tell her to get a freaking life. You don't need to be bothered with that. Think of what you and DH would do if it was another man making these advances to you...It is really no different! I agree with the others...being a little *****y may be in order now! Good Luck!

Lennie: Set her Straight?

On the way to the nephews ball game but just had to respond to Star! Hope everyone has a great day and I will try to check back in later!

to all I missed!

Lisa

Star,
Maybe that pic. of the guy on the nightstand was HER before the surgery! If she ever tries that again, I know this dosen't sound very Christian of me, but I would KNOCK HER THE **** OUT! Besides that, how are your peepers feeling?

BTW, hello to everyone else!

Thanks everyone. I'm really feeling much better now. DH and I talked and he helped me get a grip.

So here's where it is - and don't get mad at me.

She's my friend. I don't want to change that. I'm a humongous flirt - guys, girls, doesn't matter - so this is somewhat my own doing. I have absolutely no problem with the fact that she's bi so that's not an issue. I'm not going to be *****y or mean to her because I think that invalidates her feelings - and like I said, she's my friend. Finally, both husbands know about this and both are just fine.

So I'm going to do nothing.

She knows I'm married and she knows I'm not betraying that ever, so it's a non-issue at this point. DH even got me laughing about it, so that's good. Really, I just think I was so completely caught off guard by the whole thing that I couldn't even think straight (no pun ) So all is well

Star - I am glad you figured out how to handle the situation but sorry you were put in it in the first place. At least things are ok now. You are right, man or woman doesnt matter and I wish more people figured that out.

Just wanted to say a quick hello to everyone. I never get on the daily threads except the weekends because I get home too late. By the time I get to post about them, you are all done talking and starting the next day. I do have wednesdays off though and wanted to say hi!

SHE GRABBED YOUR FOOD?????
I WOULD HAVE BELTED HER!!!!

Star, All I have to say is I am totally straight but if a woman is licking my feet she had darn well better look like Cindy Crawford and she had better throw in a good foot massage and pedicure too!!