We are a group of individuals who weigh or have weighed 300+, or near there. This group was formed to provide a place for others like us to find support, inspiration, and hope. We are aware of the distinct problems that come with weighing over 300 lbs.
We want to invite everyone (roosters as well as chicks!) to join us in our journey. We share laughter and tears, heartaches and fears ... joys and celebrations. We also share what works for us and what doesn't.
We have found this thread to be more than just a support group... we have found it to become a home. We invite you to join us!
Just realized that school starts at the end of the month. So much for not spending so much this month.....I always buy the school clothes for the boys so guess I'll be spending some bucks pretty soon!
finished my Math class today; only have Economics left and that ends next week. can't wait to be done with school for a few weeks before beginning my sophomore year, which is going to be terrible (maxed out credits both semesters, ugh). such is life. tomorrow begins my "need to lose as much as possible before school begins" regime. I wrote out a list of goals and I need to find a place to hang them up in my room. I'm making my husband do it with me too
Hello ladies!
Hi Garnet!
Good luck with school shopping Betsy! That's always a bank-breaker!
Congrats on finishing your math class wheezy, what math class was it?
Hola Lass!
Wheezypi -- Sounds like you've got a lot going on. I remember those days....and wonder how I did it. Enjoy your short vacation!
We're having rain for the first time literally in a month -- just in time for the town's annual arts festival. I feel so sorry for the artisans because rain always keeps the attendance down.
Got a lot to do today -- guess I'd better get to it!
Rough day yesterday. Had something happen at work that caused me to fret. I have generalized anxiety disorder and when I start fretting and worrying, it's hard to shut off. So, I talked with hubby and after dinner we took a walk together because he was also bouncing off the walls. It was a lovely walk. We've not been able to walk together in years because of various physical ailments.
However, our enjoyment of that walk was completely spoiled by my passive-aggressive, crap-stirring, high school mentality, disingenuous neighbor. She had confronted my husband last week because, get this, we don't always wave to her. Yes, I'm serious. Last night started out with an apology because her daughter had read my husband the riot act about something stupid but, as usual with this woman, it turned quickly into rehashing old nonsense and lecturing my husband and myself on our behavior. I guess minding our own business and being quiet is being a bad neighbor.
I walked away before I popped her one. I was seriously angry enough that I really wanted to smack her.
I did not handle things well. I went and bought beer, drank a whole 6-pack and then topped it off with a few vodka shots. In addition to the booze, I landed face first in a bag of tortilla strips.
I'm up almost 2 pounds today. Not to mention, I'm hung over, still fretting about work and very, very unhappy with myself for falling off both the booze and the food wagons.
My husband and I decided last night that we are no longer even going to try to mend the relationship with our neighbor. We. Are. Done. The next time she starts in, and there will be a next time, we are going to shut her down, basically tell her that we are done with her and walk away. We will keep doing that until she gets the blasted message.
Yesterday was probably one of the best days I've had in a LONG time. My new meds for GAD (I can totally relate to your feelings, Garnet) have been working wonders. I have more energy, a new love for life, and a new sense of adventure. So much, in fact, that I hiked my 351 pound booty to the bottom of Quechee Gorge (popular attraction here in VT) and back, then we (my hubby, kiddo, and I) hiked the opposite direction to a dam. The hills were STEEEEEEP! But, I pushed through and I was SO proud of myself for accomplishing it! We hiked 1.4 miles total and my leg muscles are feeling it big time today! Totally worth it though!!
Garnet - so sorry for your problems... I do not blame you about the neighbor... sounds like she needs to be minding her own business... I hope the job issues work out...
April - that is so awesome about hiking... and having a new lease on life... glad you found the meds that help your disorder...
Today was a good day for me... my mom and I went shopping and had a nice lunch out that was POP... I found a couple of tops and prepped the fridge for the coming week... all in all a good day... now to get my walking in soon....
I've been on vacation since last Friday. I was really concerned about gaining weight while on vacation. You could say that I was stressed out about it! My normal weigh in day is Sunday, but when I got home this evening. I just couldn't stop myself from getting on. When I left at 8am Friday the 26th, I weighed 309.4. This evening at 6:30 I weighed 309.4! I wasn't aiming for a loss, but I wanted to at least stay the same. And, it looks like I did it! I'm so excited! I will use my official weigh in weight from tomorrow morning for myfitnesspal and etc. I always use a morning weight, so there's a slight chance I could be down a pound or two in the morning. I always weigh more in the evenings.
I can also relate to the anxiety thing - I have anxiety and OCD and they can be such pains to deal with! Although, way less of a pain once you finally figure out what the heck is going on. (At least, that was my experience.)
I am feeling really strong fitness wise these days, tracking all my food intake and really upping my exercise lately which helps me feel even stronger. Rawr! Pretty nice, actually, to feel in control in one realm when dealing with a lot of stressors beyond my control.
I am new to this site and new to the idea of not only online support groups for weight loss, but confiding in others regarding the struggles and success. Due to an unfortunate accident a few years ago I gained a considerable amount of weight and with the amount of stress I've been under lately my weight has skyrocketed. I am finally in the right mindset to lose weight the healthy way and realize that I need the support of people who understand what it is like to be 300+ pounds. This seems like a great support group with encouraging and insightful individuals.
I love this site because I know that when I come here there are many that truly do understand the struggles I go through... It feels good knowing that when I talk about seatbelts not fitting or wanting a table instead of a booth at a restaurant that there are people who understand...
The good thing is that my seatbelts are now fitting but I haven't mustered the courage to sit in a booth yet...
I hope you will come back as often as you can... the encouragement here is completely awesome!!!
Happy Sunday everyone! Today is a great day! I had my official post vacation weigh in. I lost four lbs while on vacation! For a grand total of 60lbs. I think maybe I should go back on vacation! LOL! I'm 6 lbs away from being under 300 and I'm so ready to be there.
Hi KaseyMack!
A big welcome to beachgurl4ever!
pjvw-Congrats on 65lbs! I think last time I payed attention to your avatar you were at 60lbs! I'm so happy for you!
300+ Chat Thread: Aug 13 edition
