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Forum: Weight Loss Support 06-06-2013, 01:16 PM
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Posted By kaplods
I'm not sure I totally agree. I think the longer...

I'm not sure I totally agree. I think the longer a couple is together, the more likely they are to ASSUME they know what their spouse or long-term partner is thinking. The opportunity though is to...
Forum: Weight Loss Support 06-01-2013, 01:56 AM
Replies: 54
Views: 10,390
Posted By kaplods
Apparently that is the situation, as op mentioned...

Apparently that is the situation, as op mentioned that she has her own workspace and has only used his chair very rarely.

I think op's hubby was insensitive, but it suddenly ocurred to me that hub...
Forum: Weight Loss Support 05-30-2013, 09:56 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 10,390
Posted By kaplods
There's no need to feel sorry, because I don't -...

There's no need to feel sorry, because I don't - and I don't see them as terrible. Inconvenient? Annoying? Mildly embarrassing? LMAO funny? Well, yeah... now... but not terrible, and that's my...
Forum: Weight Loss Support 05-30-2013, 08:56 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 10,390
Posted By kaplods
I don't accept that referring to a person's size...

I don't accept that referring to a person's size has anything to do with criticism or the presence or absence of unconditional love or acceptance, anymore than referring to height or shoe size.
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Forum: Weight Loss Support 05-30-2013, 08:26 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 10,390
Posted By kaplods
If he had been "clearly" trying to hurt her...

If he had been "clearly" trying to hurt her feelings, there would not have been the long pause OP described, and he would not have started with, "There's no easy way to say this".

Op should know...
Forum: Weight Loss Support 05-30-2013, 08:06 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 10,390
Posted By kaplods
Unfortunately tone doesn't always correlate with...

Unfortunately tone doesn't always correlate with intention, which is harder to determine.

In the early years of our marriage, my husband and I had great difficulty communicating. We argued often...
Forum: Weight Loss Support 05-30-2013, 07:15 PM
Replies: 54
Views: 10,390
Posted By kaplods
What would you have wanted to say? Nothing, and...

What would you have wanted to say? Nothing, and allow you to possibly be injured.

If you're sure he wanted to hurt you, dump the turdball, but I don't understand the "let's pretend I'm tiny" game...
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