Becky, we were posting at the same time...don't you find the Wiggles to be deeply disturbing? I do...I can't think of a single man I know who would do those things for any amount of money in private, much less broadcasted on TV. They just really make me uncomfortable, but I can't put my finger on why...I too get emotional about people who just can't seem to be positive no matter what. I feel as though I put so much time and energy into being up and trying to keep others up that it just pisses me off that they have no respect for others and think people enjoy their whining. I don't think it's silly to cry about that at all, more like a necessary release so you aren't stewing over it all day. Hope the date gets to happen! By the way,a s per yesterday's post, I also "waited" until was married...I don't think it's prudish at all, because I am definitely not a prude...
Jayne- Yes the wiggles are weird. My sister and I always tease our significant others that they should try and be Wiggle Wow that is great that you waited. It is difficult but I am glad that we made this choice.
As far as everyone else thanks for supporting our decison. Positive feedback is always appreciated!
I couldn't get my wedding photos posted ... I don't have capability on my work laptop to shrink them down. So I might take Rina up on her idea to do photoisland. Oh, here's an idea ... I've been posting to a WW wedding site for a few months (yes, I'm sad) and I was able to put some photos up there. So try going to http://groups.msn.com/WWWeddingParty Under "newlywed pics," my screen name is bodyinprogress.
I've got to run out to grab something to eat because my tummy is grumbling but I'll be back later. Oh, Becky, for some reason, I couldn't reply to your message. Email me at [email protected] and we'll chat wedding!
Hey girls! Can't do a long post, but I just wanted to check in before Thanksgiving! I've been trying to exercise more lately as a sort of pre-holiday defense. So I did 45 minutes on the treadmil and some weights at the gym this morning. I've upped the weights on some moves and I can really feel a difference.
This weekend I'm going home for Thanksgiving (I managed to finagle a whole week off class-whoo!). I can't wait. I haven't seen my brothers in ages, so it should be a fun get-together. Trying to keep eating very very good for the next few days so I can enjoy a little dessert on Thursday.
Jayne & Becky - Talking about what went on in the previous thread, I didn't wait until I was married becuase I'm not married yet (well, next year ) but I am proud to say that DF is the only one I have ever been with.
Jayne - I have been diagnosed with seasonal depression. Around November I start getting depressed, tired, no motivation, things like that. It is because you get less natural sunlight. There are lamps you can buy that mimick natural sunlight (unlike regular light bulbs) and just turning one on while you watch TV, cook dinner, whatever can make all the difference! Maybe you should get it checked out?
Ali - I don't think you are the only one like that with guys. I used to be like that too until I met this one and something must have clicked because now he's the one I'll be spending the rest of my life with and I never was clumsy, etc with him. Maybe thats when you will know you've met the right guy.
Belle - I have lost over 60 pounds and I am STILL like that. I still have what I call my "fat mentality" and I'm almost worried that it won't go away! I still say to DF "can you REALLY tell? I mean REALLY???" And I've gone from an 18 to a 10, I mean logically I would think that one would be able to see a difference but for some reason I still don't see that "remarkable" difference that everyone else sees and I think its because this took place over the course of a year. You don't magically see it drop off. You get used to losing weight, and so you are sort of used to the way you are all the time while you are using weight. Thats the way it was for me. It still doesn't shock me even it does some of my friends. Does anyone else fell this way??
I didn't do anything different this week...same clothes, same routine, etc etc. I was EXPECTING a gain but not that much. Oh well, back on the bandwagon again today and I'm thinking maybe I'll just forget it ever happened and get on with it!
Also, can someone help. I am missing my points finder today. 270 calories, 0 fat, 4+ fiber = ?? points
Eek, I had some blood work done and almost passed out (this is common for me), but you know what? I feel better and my mood has improved (not that I am suggesting a blood test to improve ones mood)
Lori: I don't have a points calculator handy, but I am guessing 5 points. Actually I got over the fat mentality but it took a long time. I still see some of the effects of weight loss <Loose-skin and the stretch marks>, but overall I eventually realized that I was a lot smaller than average (I am a size 5-7) and that I look healthy (hey it's healthy to have curves). I'm so happy that you met your guy though that's great! I know mine is out there.
Jayne: Actually #9 is how I keep everything in perspective... Someone told me often you have to date some bad ones (not that this past one was, but some others were) to really appreciate the good ones. It's also helped me determine what I really want in a person... I know I want a strong guy who's brutally honest and admires my independance. A guy who loves the Simpsons and one who likes to laugh with me. A guy who isn't clingy and someone who loves my imperfect self and will call me beautiful even if I have a terrible acne outbreak and am bloated
Cat: are you from a family of brothers too? (I have 3)
Belle: Accept compliments Your guy wouldn't say them if he didn't mean them.
Becky: me and this guy know each other inside out. We've been friends for 8 years.... but right now, I don't know.
JenK: Thanks! I also have exams starting in 2 weeks and tons of assignments to finish! good luck, and I am sorry for your loss.
Jen: yeah, well I shouldn't have agreed to be in her group.. I knew she was kind of like that. Oh well, I'll chalk it up to experience.
Kim Beautiful Pics!!! I love the one that you love! Uhh gorgeous pic!
OK ladies I need to have a wedding vent.
Speaking of Pics the photographer that I thought that I wanted to use was supposed to drop off her portfolio at 11am and called at 12:30 to say she couldn't make it. She is making a pattern of being unreliable and I told DFthat we need to look for someone else which stinks b/c she was inexpensive b/c she has just started doing weddings. She has done babies and family pics in the past. Oh well back to the drawing board. She said she would bring the portfolio by my house tongiht so I will look at it and talk to her about some of my concerns. who knows maybe she will work out. She is just notorious thus far for calling a day after she said she would or "rescheduling" like she did today. I just don't want her to "forget" about our wedding time or something.
I have determined not to be a psycho bridezilla however I can see why this process becomes a bit stressful. I am just going to try and work the stress out through exercise rather than Caramello's
Thanks for the listening ears! Talk to you all later!!!!
Wow, so many posts today, so little time. I have a choir concert tonight (university choir Prelude to Christmas) it should be fun. I get to go see Harry Potter this weekend too - I'm excited about that.
Wow, there' s so many posts I can't see them all so Hopefully I can remember enough to respond to everyone.
Ali - you're group partner sounds annoying Hopefully HER work is good enough for YOU.
Jen - Have a fun girls weekend!
JenK - I hope your trip isn't stressful and you can ccome back and get some good studying in. Aaak! Finals! It's almost enough to make me change my mind about going back to school.
Belle - I was horrible when I got body image conscious in my last relationship. But it only happened after I had lost weight. I think there's truth in the whole "sexy is an attitude" theory. I think, therefore I am.
Becky - have a nice date this weekend. It should be nice to be able to spend some time with your DF.
Kim - The wedding pics are beautiful - what a gorgeous day. You look beautiful too.
OK - I've spent too long on line so a quick hi to everyone I'm missing, Lori, Jayne, Kirsty (where've you been?), cat and everyone else.
I'll be back
KT
Becky, we were posting at the same time. I just wanted to say, don't go with her! This is an extremely important day and there are enough things for you to worry about that you don't need an unproven photographer who shows up late or who will take forever to get your proofs back to you. I'm sure you can find someone more reliable that you like. Good Luck!
KT
Thanks everyone for the comments about my wedding photos! I just dropped off 7 rolls of film from the "official" photos. There are 14 rolls in all, but my photographer suggested I do them in batches just in case any get lost. I also have 4 rolls of honeymoon film, too. I'm going to be rolling in photos!
Becky: (and email me if you want to chat more!) Here's what I did for wedding photos. Fortunately I work at a newspaper that has a lot of great photographers. One of them, who is also a friend, took the photos for me. She charged me a $500 fee, plus film, and then gave me the film so I could develop it myself. It'll be a little cheaper that way, and I'm developing the film where she would have taken it anyway. She does weddings on the side, and she's a great newspaper photographer, so I know they'll be great. What about contacting your local newspaper and asking if anyone does wedding photos? A big reason I like using a photojournalist is that I wanted a lot of candids and just a few posed shots.
Sorry, I'm not replying to everyone! Hope everyone is doing well!
Wow that is great that you waited. It is difficult but I am glad that we made this choice. 
) but I am proud to say that DF is the only one I have ever been with.
