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  • I can't speak for all Europeans, of course. However, some of my best friends live in Belgium, France, Germany, and other countries. These same people have weight issues, and I have never heard any of them say anything negative about obese Americans. Instead, we often discuss the problems that are unique to their own areas and how that relates to their weight.

    I lived in England for year, and the lifestyle there was so different from what we are used to here. As Jennifer said, I walked everywhere I went, as everyone did. It wasn't unusual for me to walk 3 to 5 miles, round trip, just to buy a bag full of food that I could carry home. I walked to small grocery stores several times a week, buying small packages of food, little tiny cartons of milk, etc. Everything is purchased in smaller quantities there, unlike the gallons and tubs we have here. The first time I went to a supermarket there, I bought a buggy full and called a taxi to help me get it home. When a friend noticed how full my cupboards were, he both gasped and laughed! I tried to explain our habit of "stocking up" to him. However, his only real comment was that he thought having so much food in the house at once would leave one open to the temptation to overeat. He said that growing up, his entire family never had as much food in the cupboards at one time as I had just for myself. Now keep in mind that this was JUST a small narrow refrigerator (half the size of a standard American fridge) and only one kitchen cabinet was used for food.

    I eventually changed my shopping habits and bought just what I needed for 2 or 3 days max, then walked to the store for more.
    When I returned to America, I expected to keep up the same habits. However, I soon found myself driving to far away stores, loading up the buggy again, and of course never walking further than my car.

    Anyway, lifestyles will be different no matter where you go. It's only natural to look at someone else's lifestyle and consider your own as better. That's human nature, and natural for any culture.

    The only times I have ever encountered negative attitudes regarding my weight have been here, by thin Americans that have no concept of what causes -and solves- weight issues. People that think all you need to do is grab a Slim fast shake and all your problems are over. This stems from our own American media, in my opinion, that feed on catchy headlines, put too much emphasis on stick thin models and celebrities, and constantly flash commercials for miracle (i.e. scam) diet products that the thin people assume work because they don't have to use them, so they wonder why we don't.
  • In VM's defense, I do beleive she said she loves Norway and the people. She said she has had 7-8 unfortunate encounters with people that have not been respectful. I do not think she ever said that all Europeans are evil or bad or anything negative. I really think what people who are reading this thread are doing is blowing it way out of wack!

    Getting back to our reason for this thread: My reason for today is I have lost weight 2 other times and gained it all back when having babies. When I lost the weight, I felt better about myself and I had a ton more energy. I want myself to smile inside and out. I don't want to put on that merry sunshine face when I am out in public I want that merry sunshine face to be real!!

    ladaha
  • Gee..when I re-read my post this morning...Guess I was a little FIRED UP...sorry...I did not mean to stir things up so much...especially since I am a newbie here!

    Jennifer~Suzanne..thank you for making things a little clearer. I do feel better! Different culture..different outcomes. VM's post was a little mind blowing..but VM is an extremely intelligent person with VERY vivid writing skills! I think the reference to someone here? being an "axe handler" and "missed the boat" stirred things up a little too...It was not just me! (sorry..I know I sound like a second grader)

    Iadaha and VM~ I am sorry if my post inplied that I fell ALL Europeans are obese hatters. But to say that she was SPAT UPON paints a pretty horrible picture...don't ga think?? and I did whole-heartedly mean it when I said that I worry for VM...if the portrait she painted is true...Life must be **** for her!..I have read several of her posts and I really think she is great too!

    My reason for today~~ So I would never have to worry about being judged by my size, but for my intelligence and for being a moral, ethical, kind person!...peace..tootles
  • I was laying in bed last night and thought of another reason, I want to loose weight so my DH can sweep me off my feet and carry me to bed again! He did that all the time in my skinnier days and what a great foreplay move! lol

    Ladaha
  • Hi, guys! This is a childish, good-bye cruel forum post from the axe handler!!! NOT! Just wanted to add a postscript that I woke up this a.m. and realized that I should not be voluntarily subjecting myself to the kind of nonsense that happened yesterday, so I'm gettin' the heck outta dodge!

    This is a great forum. I've been posting here for years, having ups and downs, but have made some really wonderful friends who have helped me in the journey. I don't want to see this forum descending into the kind of name calling thing that occurs on other sites and that actually I think some people enjoy. I have a problem resisting the urge to respond when I or someone who (whom?) I respect and have known for awhile is categorized directly in a negative fashion. Not responding IS the best response but then things just go on and on and a source of support that many people here turn to is lost!

    Anyhow, I want to express my gratitude to the three sisters for providing this great site to us, which they do FREE OF CHARGE at a time when many other diet sites are now getting quite costly.

    Re weight, I definitely think I do "get it," and I'm enjoying the last stages of my march to maintenance.

    I wish the same enjoyment and pleasure in the journey to everyone here and as someone said on this thread, we are all beautiful. As I said, which I guess has been the problem, I was dang beautiful at 247 pounds and I'm dang beautiful now and I will be pretty dang amazing at 135 pounds. I believe if we aren't aware of our own beauty (inside and out) then wherever we live or whatever we do or whatever the heck we weigh, we won't be successful in any endeavor, including the weight loss/maintenance journey.

    Avanti!
  • I just want to open my closet doors and know that absolutely every thing in there fits and is flattering. And not be afraid to throw things out because nothing else fits....
  • Cheekbones! I miss my cheekbones! There are fat pockets under the eyes, too, and my eyes are getting sort of smaller. Anyone else miss their cheekbones and big eyes?
  • Hi Gang - This is my first time jumping into your board. I have loved reading all your reasons and can relate to so many of them. Cerise really nailed it with the last one --- Big Eyes. I have been taking progress pics of my weight loss thus far and noticed that a year ago I looked all squinty and puffy and now my eyes stand out!

    Skinny - we are also trying to have a baby - that's one of my big reasons...

    Along with a million others, which include:
    Feeling Better, physically and emotionally
    Looking better
    Enjoying shopping for clothes
    Better Sex (c'mon, we all think it, don't we?)
    Fitting into restaurant booths
    Rides at amusement parks
    Getting massages
    The priceless look on my mom's face when she sees me getting thinner.

    I could go on and on, but I won't right now because I am suppose to be working.

    Barb
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    My reason for today is one that has been mentioned a couple of times, but I personally have not put it into my own words. I am tired of being depressed about being fat. I have fought all summer not to buy new pants because it would mean I have to buy the next size up! I was down to 1 pair of long pants that don't have holes or stains on them. Yesterday my daughter left 3 crayons in her pocket and yes my 1 pair of pants was in that load. I had to go to the store last night and buy some pants.
    Ooo! This is me. I SWORE this past May that I would be able to buy new pants for fall. Didn't lose the weight. I feel bad about that. And I don't want to buy any new pants until I do lose the weight.

    Something Skinny4baby said really struck a nerve with me... "I don't want to lose myself." How true! I want to lose weight, I want to lose fat, but I don't want to lose the woman I am. I don't want there to be less of my presence in the world. I am not doing this to disappear. Yes, sometimes I wish I could go back in time to when I was skinny and stop myself from gaining all the weight. But not at the cost of losing all that life experience. There really is more to life than the way my body looks. So I'm going to stop obsessing about this. Right now. Maybe. If I can do it.

    Reason of the cay: When I'm turning the steering wheel on my car to go around the corner, my fat gets squished when I turn my body back to the front of the car. Eww!

    AR
  • I will have a busy day tomorrow but I already have my reason ready so I will post one day early.

    My reason: My DH does not simply roll over in the bed he is kinna like a fish out of water. He flops and flips till he is comfy. In the process every ounce of fat I have jiggles like a bowl full of Jelly! I hate it. It would be nice not to be reminded how fat I am every night, while my DH gets comfy!!
  • Interesting topic here Everyone has soo many good reasons.So I thought that:

    I had to post. Today I realized that looking at my body profile that I would like to see that my breast are farther out than my gut! It would be nice to see the two separately rather than a combo kind of thing. Know what I mean?? (hee-hee)
    Anyway- I figure I would share that.
  • MNJ:



    For today, I want to look better than certain people I don't like. Yeah, shallow, but sometimes we take what we can to keep us going! :lol
  • Hello people - reason for losing weight today is - being able to share a seat in comfort on public transport and not hog the whole seat to myself and have other people mutter about fat bags taking all the space!

    I'm glad things have calmed down I was getting a little worried that you may not want me on here but wherever people congregate there's always going to be some contention. Fortunately people on here are extremely grown up about these things and have sorted it out.

    I love this site this forum and this thread

    Dee
  • ladaha...

    Thanks so much for starting this thread, it's really fun to check in and read every so often. It actually put the brakes on a points binge yesterday. Fortunately I caught myself in that pause where you hear the voice that says, "Hold on, Cowgirl. Can you just do something else for a minute? THEN if you still want that you can have it..." Got a water, sat down and read some of these wonderful posts.

    So, I raise a glass of water to you today! Cheers!

    choosewell
  • Choosewell,

    Thanx I feel that everyone on this thread has inspired me!!

    My reason for today, I am tired of haveing a sore back. Maybe if I did not have so much weight on the front my back would not hurt as much!

    188/180/135