Because you are posting this, I would say you do have body image issues. That sounds sort of mean and blunt, but I say it with all due respect, as someone who also has some serious body image issues.
Here's the thing: it's quite possible that you can lose weight and still feel bad about your body. I know, because I was a size 8, normal-BMI, lovely, thin girl for years and thought I was the most disgusting, overweight person on the planet. I have since gained about fifty pounds, and while I still really don't like my weight, I feel a lot better about myself than I used to because I worked on my self esteem.
So, like everyone else has been saying, you are gorgeous. You are a gorgeous, heavy person, and my guess is you know other people who are gorgeous and heavy and you don't think negatively about them...so, there's no reason for you to think negatively about yourself. Just remember, you can and should love yourself no matter what you look like, no matter what you're wearing, no matter what your weight.
Since you asked, my guess was that you weigh around 195 lbs.
But, the number on the scale is not everything. I do recall from my younger (and thinner) days that people were always surprised by my weight because I looked slimmer. I don't know if the cliche about "heavy bones" applies, who knows.
You are so cute. Although I cannot see your entire body, I would agree that you carry your weight very well. You don't look big to me at all.
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One thing I would like to add: I would ditch the horizontally striped T. I would scream when I see all the horizontally striped tops in a PLUS-sized section (are designers complete idiots?) The stripes will widen you up visually, so avoid them. At least that's what I am doing myself. Vertical stripes are fine, horizontal ones not so much.
In general, people don't know weight of other people. Even going to the doctors office and getting weighed by people who weigh people all day long, I always have to tell them where to put the slider on the scale.
Also someone can weigh more than they appear by the amount of muscle they have. Also, the weight distribution of someone can cause them to look heavier or lower than someone of a similar weight. I've seen differences of 40-50 lbs between people who wear the exact same size.
I'd say just keep doing what you are doing and don't worry about the number on the scale.
I'll answer the question, I think it's something a lot of us want to know, as how we're perceived is often as important as the reality.
My first thought was 250, the same as me when I started, but with a better shape. The I noticed you're a bit shorter, so I'd say 240. If you'd asked on the street I'd have said 210-220 as not to hurt your feelings. :-)
You definitely don't look flabby, and you look very healthy.
You seem proportionate to me, even if you do want to lose weight. I think it's hard to categorize someone as HUGE when they are proportionate, no matter what their weight. I am guessing you are focusing in on areas you'd like to work on instead of viewing the whole picture that everyone else sees when they look at you.
Every female I have talked to about this topic has body issues, even the ones that could be bikkini models. (ESPECIALLY THOSE!!) Before you jump on me I know not all females do, just talking about my experience here.
I suspect a large percentage of males do too, although very few will admit it.
Chalk it up to another way our society is screwed up.
I'll be happy to guess your weight, though I have no clue or experience in these matters. I'll say 195. Happy?
You and I have exactly the same body proportions based on your photos. My guess is you could weigh as much as 270 and as little as 240 lbs. The reason why I say that is because you carry your weight all over like I do and my guess is that you were not a total couch potato all your life so you still have some muscle tone. I would say your goal weight could be 140-165 lbs. I can carry 165 and look fine but for BMI purposes I need to weigh 140 lbs.
You are a pretty girl but like others say here: we ALL have body image issues. How could we not in this "sick" culture we live in? Think health, think movement, think "outside the cultural box".
PS I used to wear my hair like that too. It's a fun style.
you're a few inches taller than me and look fairly close to my starting size..so I would guess low 200s mainly because of your height.
I also agree with the person who mentioned horizontal stripes. The shirt is very cute but whenever I tried horizontal I just felt uncomfortable.
You do dress very well though....much better than I used to.
Thank you everyone. I need to stop worrying about the numbers so much. I've been watching too much reality shows about being over weight. I see them at my weight and think "am I so big that I should be on a weight show for my extreme weight?" or of women getting weight loss surgery... I look in the mirror and think I'm not really that big... but my Mom once asked if I considered WLS... and Ugh... I need to just stop. Not everyone is the same.
LoL Yes, seeing horizontal strips in plus sized sections drives me insane too... but I needed a new shirt and it was only like $5... I think the cut of it made me feel and look skinner though.
Here is another picture of what I was when I first started trying to get healthy:
So even by 20lbs I think I look a good deal skinnier, the scale just doesn't want to be nice to me.
I have half a mind to change my goal from a number to a size/feeling... but I guess you need a number for a ticker haha
Stephanie, I think you're doing great!
I can really see a difference in your photos. (I think the striped shirt looked good on you - not everyone can pull that off.)'
Keep up the good work!! Getting healthy now, and keeping your healthy habits for life will be an inspiration to ALL of your friends and family. And your children will benefit the most by having a healthy, happy mom as a role model, teaching them healthy habits and cheering them on into her old age!
You and I are very similar in body types - and hair cut, though I haven't found the courage to go as red as you (I'm very slowly working my way from brown to redder...). I'm two inches shorter than you and I never would have guessed you weigh what you do - so I think you carry your weight very well. I know that's such a cliche and not really a great thing to hear, but I suspect that's why your friends don't feel you're "big" - you really don't look it! Sometimes I let outside influences change the way I feel about myself - let's be honest, who doesn't? - but then I stand in front of the mirror (or better yet, take a photo) and I realize yes, I am heavier than I should be for my optimal health, but I'm really working on it and I'm getting fitter and making better food choices for my health and in turn the scale will reflect that. I have a horrible relationship with the scale so I'm trying to move my focus away from that number and onto how my clothes fit, how well I can get through a spinning class, how easily I can run up a couple of flights of stairs - y'know? Alternative measures...
julesp313: I like that idea very much! I like myself. I need to just stop obsessing. I'm not losing weight because I don't like myself so much as wanting to be healthy for a role model for my daughter... plus I'm tired of trying to find cute clothes in my size!
I think I'll only go so low as a size 12 (whatever weight that is). I like being plus sized though I really don't think 12 should be considered plus sized *eye roll*
Just remember, you can and should love yourself no matter what you look like, no matter what you're wearing, no matter what your weight.
I'll say 195. Happy?
