momof4girls - About the affects of pregnancy on bodies...my body is COVERED with huge stretch marks from my little ones and even though I am pretty young I doubt that my skin will ever shrink as much as I'd like. Something that my cousin told me really helped, she said that one of the Native American groups (don't remember which one) views stretch marks caused by pregnancy as your child's way of tattooing you. I thought that this was a really great, positive way to view something that you can't really change anyway. Now when I look at all those marks (some literally 1 inch wide
) I think of my son and daughter and how bearing my children was worth every toll it took on my body. Where they used to make me sad, now my stretch my stretch marks remind me of my love for my kids.