I'm so glad to hear that you didn't go raid the fridge or eat that chocolate cake. That, unfortunatley, hurts no one but you. And it does sound like he wasn't saying anything to intentionally hurt your feelings. I have foot in mouth disease too. I hurt my best friends feelings once when i was getting married. I was pregnant, getting married in June and another one of my friends were getting married in July. She wanted me to be a bridesmaid. So, i was trying to order a dress that my bridesmaid could wear and then i could wear it the next month in the other wedding. My best friend was on the heavy side....When i told her that i was ordering this particular style of dress for her, i said that it didn't matter how big i got in the next month because i could still wear it. YEAH!!! TAlk about insult!!!! The dress was an empire waist with a billowing skirt. I just meant that there was enough material in the skirt of this dress that is would accomodate for my growing belly. Not that she was sooo big that even pregnant I wouldn't be as big as her. NO WAY was that what i meant. Of course, she didn't tell me how mad she had gotten over the comment until about 2 weeks later. And thankfully, she said that she thought about it and realized i hadn't meant any insult. She knew me well enough to know the wording just didn't come out right. So...yeah....I have a bad case of foot in mouth. So, hang in there. You are doing an amazing job. WOW....losing 90 pounds is so awesome!!! I'm just trying to hit 60 and stay there!!! lol.
Keep your chin up. You are doing wonderful.
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