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Old 10-12-2004, 06:33 AM   #1  
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good morning ladies All is good this morning.
I have been reading the posts, just haven't had the time to respond. Sorry.

Susie-some people would say that once we "start" to lose weight, and then get a little laxed in the process, is because of the fear. Fear of the unknow. Fear of change. Fear of actual failure. So we sabatoge (sp) ourselves, so we don't ever make to the final goal. This way if we do make it and gain it back, we won't be a total failure. Let me just say, I do believe it. I've been at time very successful in my weight loss efforts. I was heavy all durning school, and final at 25 I did something about it. I lost 100 pounds. People do treat you different. Men notice you, people compliment you, people are proud of you. Got married, shouldn't of, started to gain some of it back. and the story goes on. But you also have to realize, that if you lose this weight, the way i did the first time, you will gain it back. You can't just eat salads every day for the rest of your life, and you can't ever not have another french fry again. Ok you can, but look out when you do what something different. I've been there. The key to it is exercise, and moderation. Instead of getting a super sized french fry, get a small, eat a small peice of cake instead of a large one, eat half of a candy bar instead of a whole one. Making small changes will give you benefits. Making spirit and mind changes will also benefit you.

Sherri-good for you exercising. Good goals too. You can do it.

Hope all the other missing in actions are doing ok. I know how life can be sometimes.

Summer-hope dd is doing better even more. Thoughts and prayers still go out to you all.

Eleni-glad the test came out fine, now the next hurdle to climb. You can do it. Glad you could drive, too. It always feels different doing it after you haven't done it in a while.

Penny-when is your trip again. You are going to have sooooooooo much fun, if you haven't already.

Me-Good. I mangaged to walk away from the scale with a turtle last night which is good, since i have been eating a lot of halloween candy already, and my neverousness with this house thing has totally kicked in. I ended up bitting all my nails off. So it's back to the drawing board for that. done it once, can do it again. Matter of fact that goes with anything, i'm including the weight thing. We had our final inspection on Friday. Found out on Saturday, the "Fannie Mae" signed the necessary papers, and they are in the snail mail, which thanks to "Columbus Day" is late. I hate government holidays. They get too many days off. So do teachers now a days. Sorry teachers. Brandon doesn't go one friday in November. Amazing. Ok, back on track. Found out yesterday that the appraisal from our mortgage company will be held on Wednesday afternoon. We are trying to close soon. I'm hoping next week(brandon's birthday, and mine, but i don't have them anymore. ), but it will more than likely be the week after. (which i'm schedule for possible jury duty ) It is getting cold outside. Our realtor did tell us that we could start packing some stuff now. Everything was looking good. I'm just not breathing till the keys are in our hands. I'm trying to figure out if I'm going to take some time off. I have 2 weeks at christmas time off, but I may change it to one week it I have to pay the daycare anyway. It will cost 15 a day extra for brandon. Not much of a savings for him going there. He is no problem either. But rules are rules. So i'm thinking to get settled in the way I want I may do it. The week thing. Talk to sitter today about christmas pay. Yeah and you know what. Paint was on sale this week, half off, and I can't even buy it. Bummer. Well I'm thinking of looking at dishwashers briefly today. Later gals.
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Old 10-12-2004, 09:43 AM   #2  
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Wendy: Thank you so much for your post this morning. It was what I needed. I think I am afraid to be thin sometimes. You mentioned that people look at your differently. Right now, I get a lot of attention from men. I find it amazing! But I think it's because I act confident most of the time and I've heard them say..she's big, but she's pretty and she knows how to carry it. I'm wondering what it will be like when I'm thin? It's like once I get thin is everyone going to be waiting for me to put the weight back on. Right now, everyone is cheering for me, but what happens when I reach the goal? Wow...now there's something to journal about sometime!

I'm glad to hear that things are going good for you with the house. I can't wait until you get those keys in your hand! I'm praying for things to go smoothly!

I'm glad you turtled this week depsite the candy. Be careful with those miniture candy bars..they can sneak up on you! I guess I'm lucky because with the IC I can't have chocolate..so I don't eat candy now. (I never thought I would mention IC and lucky in the same sentence! )

I'm doing ok today. Trying to get focused at work. I have a lot to do and I'm also studying for my first accounting test which is this Thursday. I've got flash cards to use on the treadmill today. I was going to skip my exercise, but it's important to me too, so this way I can do both..study and work my body!

Ok..I've got to get to work. Hope to see more posts from everyone today!
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Mornin Ladies...

How is everyone feeling?

Susie,
I know exactly how you feel! I think we all do it... I guess it is like Wendy said... The fear of the unknown... Great idea about the exercise and studying! That sounds wonderful!
I don't think anyone will be waiting for you to fail! You sound like you have good friends! How is your little friend doing?

Wendy,
Sounds like everything is running smoothly with the house! That is wonderful news! Congrats on the turtle

Sherri,
Hope you are getting all your housework done! How are the kids doing?

Eleni, Summer, Christie, Eleni, LaDean, Wanda, Ciecie.. Hope you are all having a wonderful day HUGS TO YOU!

Hubby is letting me join a gym so we are gonna got check em out today Wish me luck! Penny
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Wendy,

That is great about the house. It will work out. Just the waiting kills us. By the way Halloween is 2 weeks away girl get rid of the candy.LOL Or just because it is there doesn't mean we have to eat it. Think of the food this way. Have you ever made a bank deposit for someone of cash? Well you didn't take the money because it was there did you? No of course not that would be stealing. Well it is the same with the candy or food in general. Just because it is there doesn't mean we have to eat it. We make our choices and it is up to us to make the right ones. Come on girl you can do this. 100 lbs lost before that is amazing. That proves you have what it takes to do this. Lets get going.

Susie,

I agree with what wendy said and penny. I can't see anyone wanting you to fail. I just never know what stops me from succeeding at this. I agree this would be a good journal entry for you. Maybe you will find some answers inside and take away the fear you have. You are doing great keep up the great work. Good way to make use of your time doing 2 things at once. You are creative.

Penny,

That is great that Brad is letting you join a gym. I know how much you liked the classes before. It is good for you to get out alone and do something for you seeing you are in the house all day with the boys. Let us know how it goes.
I like flylady a lot. It is helping me although I can't do all the tasks even though I would like to. I try to do them. My house is looking better I have to say. I did throw out some things in the living room over the weekend which made me feel better. I save everything so I would have a lot more room in my house when I weed out. So that is what I am working on a little at a time with flylady. Thanks for the site. I haven't had a chance to go to the site and look around I just read all the emails I get and they help.

AS for me I am doing well. I used my extra points on sunday in one day and now the scale is up 1 lb. So I have to remember not to do that again. I did workout again this morning and it feels great to workout. I am glad I joined. I feel so much better and so much lighter these days.
The kids are doing great. I am thinking about signing megan and me up for ski lessons. We can get them through the school. So I will see. Something I thought about once to learn to do. Not really sure though. But I think she would like it and we have friends that go that would take her so that is a good thing. Not much else happening here. I will be in trouble at work today. I accidentally mailed a check to the wrong place and they actually cashed it. I can't believe that one. But at least I found the check. Now I have to take responsibility for my mistake and I will when the boss gets back.

Talk to you all soon,

Sherri
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