Hello chicks!!! I just made myself read about a month's worth of posts, all that I hae missed...
Andrea - oh hon, how scary for you and husband!!! good for you for hanging tough and being strong and "there" for him. Best wishes on him (Mike? right?) recovering and dealing with the heart issues. And best wihses to you for being his strong partner!
Star, Hi sweetie!! wow that's some checkup you had...and good for YOU to get it all done. I think you're the most awesome over 40 woman I've ever 'met' - ****, how about over 30!!!
hello HarleyMom! nice to meet you! I was a pretty regular poster here until I started getting dragged down about my marriage...but still love to post here about our passion for riding. Then I got hit by a stupid cager last month, and was very very lucky to have gotten off so easy, and then started back to fulltime work, so I'll use those excuses for not posting here.
hello to the others!
had GREAT riding weather last week; but since Friday it's been cold, rainy, raw - i want to ride!!
Oh - got a check from the insurance company. $1700 is just what my good-guy mechanic insisted on. I think I'll put the check in a savings account for the spring...and try to sell my bike in the spring...and go look at VTX 1300's, either C or S model.
I made a doctor's appt for next monday - a bump has develped under the chin laceration, even though the laceration is nicely healed. The bump is tender, it's not infected with throbby pain, but it hurts to touch it. I figure hey, I didn't have it before I was hit by that guy, I'll make his ins. pay to figure out what it is, take care of it, or pay to compensate for having it. Same with my blackened fingernail - I hate it ! I see people looking at it, thaks for making me even more self-conscious
Still having crummy times with husband. I wonder about going to a counselor on my own. That's supposed to make me feel better, but I know it will just increase tensions between us. But he refuses to go on his own.
I know if I shared things with the counselor I would be told 'that is NOT normal or acceptable behavior'. But what good does that do me? I already know it....and it doesn't help me to get out.
The ONLY thing that keeps me from actually bailing is my 15-yrold son. well, and knowing I couldn't support myhself on what I make.
OK didn't want this to turn so depressing...
again, I'll TRY to be more of a regular here again!!!
love,
Holly