
Adam - Cheers for recognizing that you could choose a path and move forward. You found a good place where others are doing the same.
There are a bunch of us men folks on-board - despite the name of the site - look around and you'll find us. The site is organized by locals (there's a UK forum), by age groups, by diets, and by interests. Best notion is to look around and find a place where you feel comfortable.
Have you chosen an eating plan and an exercise plan yet?