I know how it is to struggle with out of control eating. I think you have to find what works for you, but that's the hard part. Also, once you find something works for you, it may not last forever and you'll need to readjust.
For now, this is what I do when a craving hits:
chew gum
eat jello gelatin...even 2 or 3 of the single serving cups
eat a 20 cal popsicle or 2 or 3 (see my pattern?

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come to 3fc and read goal stories and look at goal photos
I actually go on Victoria Secret's website and look at things I may want to wear when I hit goal
paint my nails
crochet
do some push ups or crunches or squats
Finally...this is the most important part for me: I lie to myself and tell myself that I can have this tomorrow but just not today. That way, it makes it a little less forbidden.
I hope you figure out your list soon....it CAN be done....and the more weight that you lose, the more days you are on plan, the more inspired you'll feel so it's really worth the investment.
Oh and when you don't have a food, tell yourself that you're too good for that junk.