*grin* thanks guys..
(warning: introspective babble ahead)
the thing is that he
knows i've been trying to shape up, specifically to find my abs, which have a bit of.. padding.. at the moment. so i think that's what he meant, and actually i had been kinda afraid to start trying to lose weight (and change my figure) because he always says that he likes my squishiness, i don't need to lose any weight, he think's i look fine, all the right things to say. so i think maybe he was actually trying to be supportive. so maybe from now on i'll include him a little more in this whole thing, because up until now i haven't been. (oh and angel-eyes: he actually is in pretty good shape. stupid manual-labor jobs.)
ninja monkey says: it's all good. you can do it!!