I am impressed back at 'ya. I saw a post from Kiwi and I says to myself, "Well, here comes a smart alecky answer." Now I am ashamed.
The bottom is a steamer. It has holes in it. The liquid is gone. Potatoes remain. Can't force it anywhere.
Everyone's advice has been impeccable. I personally think going shopping with your mom would do both of you more harm than good and I don't think you have an obligation to do it if it makes you feel at all uncomfortable.

dump till I die. Which should be just about 20 years after I finally get buff, considering my family's longevity. I'm very pleased to know that I have 24 years to finish this 90 day Beach Body tape, especially since I've onlynnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn (The cat is walking across my keyboard. She's a pushy little thing.) managed to do one workout this week.
but we might move. I wish I had a cat still.