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so now my dilemma is-do i continue to my original goal of 150 or do i start phase 2 and lose maybe 10 more and be happy with my body regardless of the number on the scale. i'm 5'8", 174 lbs and i fit in a size 6. society has taught me that this is an unacceptable weight but according to friends, family and hubby i look great right now and "shouldn't get too skinny". i am a very "voluptuous" woman with a 36D chest and full bottom so i am torn.
any thoughts?
Erin, congratulations on the size 6 skirt! Like PP's have said you must do what ultimately feels right for you. We all think you look beautiful and moreover you are a beautiful person always giving inspiration and help to those of us on the board. I understand how you feel but only you can truly answer this question yourself, don't let anyone's opinion factor into your decision, do what makes you happy. As a wife and a mother I know that is a foreign concept to us. Originally Posted by mamaerinb
just wanted to say that though i did not buy a bikini today(the selection was AWFUL where i went) BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT....i DID eye a cute jean skirt. i picked up an 8 then looked over at the 6 longingly and picked it up, held it up to my hips and it looked as if i may be able to squeeze into it. so i thought for kicks i'd go try it on to see how much further i had to go till i could wear 5/6s. and yes it pulled right up and zipped!! no sucking in, no adjusting, it plain old fit.so now my dilemma is-do i continue to my original goal of 150 or do i start phase 2 and lose maybe 10 more and be happy with my body regardless of the number on the scale. i'm 5'8", 174 lbs and i fit in a size 6. society has taught me that this is an unacceptable weight but according to friends, family and hubby i look great right now and "shouldn't get too skinny". i am a very "voluptuous" woman with a 36D chest and full bottom so i am torn.
any thoughts?
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You are only human and you made a mistake just jump right back into the diet you have come this far you are almost at goal so you know you can do this!Originally Posted by Chaplains wifey
I was so bad tonight .Did good all day then went to a BBQ and had potatoe salad , jello salad , and a bun on my hamburger . Felt sick after I ate it . Felt so guilty I cam home and went on a 4 mile bike ride , pulled weeds , then did another 4 miles on the treadmill . I have not done this since I started . I don't know what happened . So the question is do I have my protein before bed or skip it tonight . Feeling so guilty .


that made me happy! I don't remember in my adult life being able to shop in a normal store.

) HOW AWESOME!!
Many of the ladies who have come before us made it to much smaller sizes than they ever expected because they lost so much fat and not so much muscle. I am in sizes I wore 20 thinner; kind of mind blowing. BUT, I know I am not done. I still see places my body can improve. I know my BF% is still a little high. I know my energy would be better. THOSE are the elements I would say should guide your decision to stop, not a clothing size.
i am doing this for me and will continue until i am undeniably happy