Okay...just a quick fly-by. Since Shelley's home now, she keeps giving me dirty looks when I'm sitting at the computer like, Gawd...you spend so much time there... So, I have things I need to do anyway...mow the lawn...I have to finish my last collage page for my mom...I want to go to lunch with my best friend before she leaves to go back to Rochester. So, anyhow...
Speaking of Rochester, I'll be going there this weekend. I'm looking forward to it, but I'm NOT looking forward to my husband being there. He is absolutely put out that he has to go there. He is no big fan of my family....mostly because he has seen me one too many times on the front porch crying my eyes out because they all ignore me all the time. My sister, in particular, will always take out the whole family on the bigger weekends, like 4th of July, and my brother will be up...my sister is the supreme ruler of our family (overruling my parents, even) and she'll take out my parents, my brother and his wife and kids. They are only 7 miles up the road from me, but she takes the whole clan out for dinner, but never, ever thinks to invite me and my family...so here I sit, bawling my eyes out, while my whole family is out to dinner without me and my husband and kids. One time Shelley was over at my parents because she loves my nephew Alex..they're about the same age...and my sister decided to take the family to a Star Wars II and, apparently, she didn't want to take Shelley, so she drove her home on the way to the movies, leaving Shelley crying on the front porch wondering why she couldn't go to the movies. I don't know what I ever did to my sister...maybe I stole her eyeshadow one too many times when I was 11 and she's never gotten over it, but she definitely has it in for me and my family. So...my parent's 50th anniversary party is this weekend at her house and we sort of have to go and Derek has been an absolute royal pain about it since about January. So, this weekend is the weekend and now I can finally put it all behind me. I tried in vain to get the party to be at a neutral place, like rent a reception hall, but my sister insisted on having at her place...which is why she wants to have the party there because she just bought a big gigantic house and wants to show it off to everyone. So, the party starts at 7pm tomorrow night and I wanted to get a room at the Holiday Inn, but Derek is insisting that he wants to drive home (3-hour drive!) afterwards, so he says we have to leave at 9 at the latest. He says he wants to be sure and wake up in his own house on Father's Day morning. But I think it's more like he wants to be sure and let my family know how inconvenienced he is having to drive six hours total for a 2-hour party. So...I could go on and on about more things that are driving me nuts about the whole thing...but I understand my husband and when it's all said and done, I'm glad I have a husband that just is mad because of how he sees me being treated and is, in a weird way, sticking up for me. So, I'll let him do what he wants and follow along behind him.
Okay...have to get out my glue sticks and finish my poster...
Just have to add that the reason I'm looking forward to it is that I get to see people that I haven't seen since I was REALLY young...like people that I used to baby sit for. THAT I'm lookign forward to. I wish I could just leave my husband home, but imagine your husbands not going to your parents' 50th wedding anniversary...or your own sons-in-law not coming to YOUR 50th. So, he sorta HAS to go.
