Good evening everyone!
What is abseil? Dawny, just be careful!
So good you got into those jeans, I have a pair of Calvin Klein jeans with no elastic waist that are just about ready to zip up all the way on me - Couldn't get them past my hips a little while ago, so it will be soon. Another NSV (non scale victory! for you Dawny!
I have two seperate NSVs today. Two different people at the quilt group spoke to me seperately and commented that "I looked good" and "have you lost weight", wow two in one morning! It set me off for the day on a positive note.
I did well with the blueberry coffee cake, it is a 3FC recipe and people didn't know it was low fat! I got asked to share the recipe!
Here is a link to the recipe if any of you would like to try it:
http://www.3fatchicks.com/cookbook/viewrecipe/553
It's really good, 5 points is high, but I made it my breakfast and had nothing to eat before going to the 9:00 am meeting. Eating that cake was great, everyone cut pieces of it and sat around chatting with coffee and kept exclaiming about how good it was! My kind of morning to be sure!
I just love when women get together for a good cause (men too I guess, but in this case we happen to be all female) and are from all walks of life, but find a common bond with their charitable works and bond! We are all friends who would never have met if it weren't for our common interest.
Our meeting went well. I am the leader of this group and we make quilts for homeless people and we also make quilts for children with cancer. I feel so good when I go and my own problems seem to dissapear when I do this great work. I am "honored" to do this work, in fact, if that makes sense. It feels kind of "holy" when I deliver these quilts and know the positive effect that they can have.
Natalie, I wish there was something I could do or say to help you get back on track and feel better. Just keep on posting here and don't give up trying! If you slip, come right back to us. WE as a group have all collectively been right in the same place you are in, I cannot tell you how many days I have started off right on program and blown it, big time, as the day has progress. You are human, forgive yourself and don't give up! You can do this.
I don't think you realize this, but I think the loss of your friend is still very much with you, it's only been a couple of weeks. Try to do something physical each day, get out in the sunshine and be around people - experience life! Your friend that passed on would want you to do that, I know! Losing a beloved friend is something that doesn't pass all that quickly, this wound is still quite fresh. I find that emotional eating is really a HUGE thing for me and I don't even realize when I am doing it. It makes you feel like you are failing as well, but please don't think that. I have thought that way too. I have kind of trained myself (and am totally not sure if I'm there yet, either) to recognize what triggers emotional eating or boredom eating. Sometimes, when I want something sweet, I am almost ready to "jump out of my skin" and am almost frenzied, like a drug addict or something. If I get this feeling, I have on a few occasions gone and brushed my teeth and drank a big glass of water. The minty taste of the toothpaste and the water seem to make me feel the craving a bit less. If about 10 or 15 minutes go by and I still am going nuts, I have something that I am craving, as I know I just MUST give in to it.
Try very hard to find low point substitutes for the things you crave, though, as well when you get the urge to binge. Take it one step at a time! You'll get there, I know you want it very badly! A good example of a low point substitute would be sugar free hot cocoa mix if you want chocolate and a chocolate rice cake. I think that would make only a 2 point snack, but you would feel satisfied. I Hershey chocolate bar might be 6 points, but if you ate it maybe you would be beating yourselp up for it later on? If you had a 2 point alternative, even one of those ww bars or a slim fast bar, you would feel better that you found something that was a treat, but made the better choice????? Good luck, we are cheering you on here!!!!
Melanie, good luck with the weigh in! Hope it goes well. I think it's harder weighing in when one goes to evening meetings! I always weigh more in the evenings, but I suppose if you always weighed in at evening meetings you would be showing losses, but just at a higher point during your day?
Linda