Vouge09, welcome to the challenge!
Barb, the hardest part of deadlifts for me was keeping my back tight. It's like, if you reach back and put one hand (on your back) at the bottom of your rib cage, and one hand at the tailbone, what you want to try and do is to shorten the distance between your hands, really squeeze that tight, and same as a squat, think about turning the pelvis over hard (like sticking your butt out). At first, like last month, I didn't even feel like I could control those muscles at all, like I was willing, but nothing was happening! But, lots of practice with the bodyweight squats really helped me get a better 'connection' to those muscles and get some control. Those, overhead squats with the pvc, and just practicing and getting coaching on the deadlift form, it's really helped me. We did deadlifts this past week, and I was able to lift heavier with WAY better form this time! Pretty good progress in only a month, so don't give up on them! And, if it makes you feel more hopeful, my boy was the devil at 3, and by 4, he was back to normal.
Chubs, woot! I saw you came back, but have been too wiped out to do personal replies before today.
Lori, I wish! lol. I do have a respectable amount of muscle going on this year, and can almost see my shoulder muscles...woot! However, I still am carrying I don't know how much excess fat, I'm guessing 25+ lbs, so I am trying to get my diet figured out to make that stuff go away! I just want to keep losing till I get rid of the stomach pooch, KWIM? Other than that, I'm okay with the weight I am now, but apparently you have to go ALL the way to get the flat stomach, or I do, at least!
Okay, can't see any more posts, so if I missed somebody, I'll catch you on the next round. Keep it on plan with the food, and make those workouts count, chickies!
Oh, forgot my report, I have news on my pull-up goal progress! Today another lady at my gym who started out heavier and was a newb last year, offered to help me with my pull-ups today. She watched me and said I should try an even smaller band than the one I was using, so I went to the BLUE assistance band, and it totally worked!!

I could only do about 2 in a row, because my timing and coordination need some work, but I did pull-ups with the little blue band today! So, I'll have to adjust my MD goal to say "2 sets of 10 with the BLUE band".

I also ripped some skin off my hand, another crossfit "badge of honor", very exciting! One of the guys superglued the skin back in place for me. That stuff stings and feels like it's burning a hole through your hand, but it worked. Whimper. lol. Also, I tried the rope climb, but couldn't get the hang of sliding my legs up over the rope and re-gripping. I was able to lock it between my feet and push/pull myself up, so if I get the sliding bit, I think I can at least climb the rope partway up...we shall see! Anyway, big day of progress on my pull-up goal for this challenge!