Here's my NSV for the weekend. My MIL is visiting from out of town - she's a good one though - however... She sent me over the edge on Friday and Saturday. We were out and about on Friday with my step-daughter who is 17. It was dinner time, and we were on our way home. My MIL said that she and my step-daughter decided that they wanted to eat at Chic-Fil-A, instead of eating at home. (And she knows how hard I've been working to lose weight) OK, so that urked me because I was the one driving them around! NOT ONLY THAT, but my MIL was JUST complaining how fat she was and how miserable she was!!! (She probably has 75lbs to lose and she can't walk because she needs her knees replaced)! So, needless to say, I had to go pick up their food for them. I had to sit in that car and smell that damn food. I was just fuming mad, but didn't show it. It used to be one of my fav's too. So I went home and ate my delicious, nutritious meal that I made and had to eat it in my bedroom, because I felt I was going to spout off at how rude it was to make me get it for them. (It was funny too because my DH had no idea what was going on). I felt so great and had a sense of empowerment that I DID NOT give in and make a poor decision. I also felt great that after they were done eating, they were complaining about had bad they felt. I gleefully said "Awe that's too bad, I feel GREAT and my meal was delish"! I guess you could say I was a little bitter. Ok, so that was Friday. Saturday morning, I got up and began cooking all my meals for the week. (It so helps to have all my meal prepared so I can "grab and go"). I had some errands to run - grocery shopping was one of them. My MIL came with me. Grocery shopping was last on the list. I bought fresh fruits, veggies, and lean proteins. When I picked up a bag a spinach she said "Eww gross - spinach?" I told her that fresh spinach was great and healthy. While we were shopping she asked me for some advice on what to buy so she could lose some weight when she goes back home. I told her that eating fresh fruits, veggies, and lean proteins was very important. I finished shopping and she said "I think I want Chik-Fil-A again today". AHHH - she JUST asked me for advice on how to lose weight, and then she wants to eat fast food??? I give up! I'm to the point where I don't want her to ask for advice, and don't complain about how bad you feel and look, because you don't make healthy choices! I have ZERO patience/sympathy for her if she chooses not to do the right thing. Whew that was a rough weekend but I got through it and I am happy that I have willpower!!


Otherwise I did pretty well. Unfortunately, my plan is up at the end of the week so my setback/delay came at a bad time. I'm doing MetaQuick for 3 days and hope to lose 2-3 lbs by the end of the week but we'll see. I think it's also my time of the month and I have some bloat
I'm set to go to Stabilization class on Thursday night, but I'd really rather wait another week to start on the stab menu. Do you think the center will give me a hard time since my contract is up on Friday? I'm not going to resign for 5 lbs! I have been a model client (their words) so I don't expect to get too much grief about it, but wondered if anyone else had some experience. They keep reassuring me that I'll lose a few more lbs on stabilization, but I'm still not quite where I want to be and really want to feel good about my final weight before heading into maintenance. Any advice?
Haha - good suggestion but, she was in the car with me - We went thought drive thru, so she told me what she wanted. I figured she could make the right choice if she wanted. It was hard to smell that yummy food, but I remained strong as steel.