Knitsforfive, I googled Only 8 for a while to try to find a place to get some in NYC, and I found one (31st and Lex, if anyone else is from here)! It's a bit out of the way for me, but I'll stop by at some point. My favorite is Tasti D-Lite (
www.tastidlite.com), which has similar nutritional content and is all-natural, but comes in 100 flavors. I am constantly walking WAY out of my way to find a Tasti D. One time I walked 50 blocks just to get some! The nearest Tasti D to my apartment is about 3/4 mile away, so sometimes I throw on my sweats, run there and grab a to-go cup, then run back and enjoy (it works well now that it's cold, but I don't know about once summer hits). Still, the run is more than burning off the calories I eat from the froyo!
Jen, Ben & Jerry's makes some lighter versions of certain flavors that aren't too bad (at least if you don't eat the whole container! I'm bad at that too...)
Roni, it's SO hard to move to a new place. I studied abroad in Denmark for a summer, and I was living on my own, with unfriendly neighbors, in a strange country - not fun! I still regret now that I spent a lot of time miserable and online with my friends/family from home instead of doing something. Last summer, I was in Florida for an internship where it was the same thing - I didn't know anyone in the whole state! (True, it was still in the USA, but sometimes it didn't seem like it - it was so different from home!) I coped by teaching myself how to cook, reading a lot, and hitting the beach a lot to get a tan (I know that last one isn't healthy, but it was also my chance to be around other people and try to get up the nerve to start a conversation). In the end, I was happy with that summer. I'm very much a people person and very unhappy when I'm alone, so it was a big achievement for me to get through it. And now I'm much better about alone time, and less prone to just get depressed. Are there any new hobbies you can take up? I know those don't help you meet people but sometimes it's good just to be busy, because as someone else said, making friends takes time.