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Okay so I have a dliema and I need some advice. I used to be best friends with this girl when we were teenagers. We did everything together. We were like sisters. To make a very long story short I'll get to the point and say at the time she liked my boyfriend so much that they fooled around behind my back. We were best friends when she did this and she did it a couple of times to different guys that I was dating. Now we recently connected again (after all these years) on myspace. We've talked a few times through email. She's been calling me but I haven't answered the phone. I just keep thinking about what she did back then. She invited me to her daughters b day party tomorrow and I have to go because I told her I would. I feel really wierd about this and I might back out. What would you guys do in this situation? One of my other friends who also hung out with her back then told me that some people change but I don't know. She really hurt me back then. I'm confused
Originally Posted by ThisTimeIsDifferent
Okay so I have a dliema and I need some advice. I used to be best friends with this girl when we were teenagers. We did everything together. We were like sisters. To make a very long story short I'll get to the point and say at the time she liked my boyfriend so much that they fooled around behind my back. We were best friends when she did this and she did it a couple of times to different guys that I was dating. Now we recently connected again (after all these years) on myspace. We've talked a few times through email. She's been calling me but I haven't answered the phone. I just keep thinking about what she did back then. She invited me to her daughters b day party tomorrow and I have to go because I told her I would. I feel really wierd about this and I might back out. What would you guys do in this situation? One of my other friends who also hung out with her back then told me that some people change but I don't know. She really hurt me back then. I'm confused
That kind of betrayal is so hard. But, if it's been years, you might check it out and see how it feels when you're face to face. Course I'm one to say go with your gut instinct and if it's telling you no this is something not worth pursuing, follow that. Wow I was a big help, huh. lol
for you on whatever you decide. 
I am going to try to stay on the same path for this week. Momentum! Here I come! 

lol well not my fault he didnt come home till almost 3am (he was at the other neighbor's house with everyone else watching a horror movie, which my 5 y/o got scared of and ran home at 115am - waking me up, again).