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Originally Posted by hannahrose
Good Morning! I just discovered this thread and I am happy I did, no one aside from my fiance knows I am doing IP so it is great to find others I can talk to on here. I am down about 12 pounds in 4 weeks, which I am pretty happy about. What I am shocked about is I just discovered (through this website) alternative products. I ordered a few online, and I found that Proti-Thin Fluffy Vanilla Crisp bars ($12.50 for 7 bars) taste EXACTLY like my favorite "Crispy Vanilla Bars" from IP! They appear to be almost identical in carbs, calories, fiber, sugar ect, and I am paying $28.20 for 7 of the IP bars. It is insanity! Same goes for HealthSmart Salt and Vinegar chips (have a few more net carbs, but very similar) and Healthsmart Apple Oatmeal!
I have posted in another thread I don't really love my coach. She calls her former 180lb self "disgusting" and calls other dieters who cheat lazy ect. She seemed disappointed when I "only" hit 10 pounds after 3 weeks. She also seems extremely confused, telling me how high the carbs are in some items, only to realize it is net carbs, not just total carbs. This has happened multiple times, and I have only seen her three times! She is a few years old than me, and I think just assumes because I am younger I want to do this to "snap necks at the beach this summer" or "wow my man" (ALL her words, NOT mine, I would never say anything like that haha). Has anyone broken up with a coach?! Should I just blame it on financial reasons? Honestly I am so bad at these things I was considering just saying I was pregnant (half kidding, but it crossed my mind!).
Sorry to vent, I just want to do this right, and be happy while I am doing it!
Hi!
I am a rebooter, but I saw your previous post about your coach. I am on my third reboot (I started to lose the baby weight- which I did! And then went on to have two more kids, so I am post baby now and working on getting back into my jeans). I did IP with the total program the first time because I didn't know about all the alternatives, etc. My coach was not super helpful- she seemed to think that time in her office was time for her to vent about her boyfriend to me and tell me about her running goals. She was very young, had clearly never done the protocol beyond trying the foods and did not know how to answer most of my questions. Considering how expensive the diet was, I was really frustrated with that. I did ask to switch to a coach I heard was better later and it was like night and day- she had lost 80 pounds on the protocol and kept it off, was supportive and actually answered my questions. She even had suggestions for recipes! My first coach was a nice person, and I did like her as a person, but she didn't actually add any value to the experience for me and I am glad I switched.
I do think it can be hard to learn the whole protocol without some help for at least a few months- especially if you need the motivation of a weekly check in with someone or help with adjusting the protocol if you hit a snag. I switched to alternatives after my first go, but I felt I had a good understanding of what to do and how to do it (these forums are really great for learning about alternatives!). That said, it sounds like your coach is not really helpful or supportive, so if you don't think she is knowledgeable and isn't supportive, I would really think about it. If there is no chance to switch, you might stick it out until you feel like you have the hang of it and then switch to alternatives.
Not to give advice where is not wanted or needed, but have you called her out on any of her comments? Maybe just saying, "I don't think that comment is helpful for my progress"?
I'm sorry you are dealing with a crappy coach.
