Hillary, I have read your post and the answers with great interest. I'm also a carb addict and I thought I'd never be able to give up my starches and sweets.
In my experience the first two or three days on low carb are the hardest because you haven't yet gotten into ketosis where your body is burning its own fat and your blood sugars haven't yet stabilized. When that happens it is the most amazing feeling. After a hearty breakfast of bacon and eggs and cheese (don't skimp on the butter), I dont even think about food for HOURS. Yes, sometimes I get a taste in my mouth that makes me think I'd like something sweet but that's when I make myself eat some more protein or I will take a tablespoon and fill it with half full fat cream cheese and half non-sugar peanut butter. Sprinkle in a few grains of light strawberry jello powder and perhaps some liquid artificial sweetener and stir it together in a custard cup. Now nibble away at it with a little spoon. There is nothing more satisfying than FAT for killing carb cravings and by adding the little taste of strawberry Jello, you are fooling your body into thinking it's getting a fruit fix too.
Sometimes I find myself eating simply because it's TIME to eat and not because I'm especially hungry. It's hard to break those old habits. It's also hard to learn to ignore those little voices telling you "Thats FAT! It CAN'T be good for me!". It most definitely IS good for you. Eating fat is the quickest way to lose carb cravings AND lower bad cholesterol. Ask any of the Chicks here who have lost a lot of weight and discovered the many side benefits of better health at the same time. How bad can that be?
Yes, you will miss having bread with your cold cuts, but you will soon get used to eating a different way. After all, the cavemen didn't have bread and they managed. They certainly didn't have pasta and the only cereal they had was probably wild stuff that they ate raw. Think of yourself as a cave person for a while and only eat what they might have eaten. (Well, do allow yourself a nice salad with rich salad dressing. It makes it so much more palatable.)
Want an easy, luscious dessert that will kill carb cravings and make you think you're living in the lap of luxury? Whip some heavy cream and sweeten it with Splenda or other artificial sweetener. Meanwhile, soften some real cream cheese and mix it in equal parts with unsugared peanut butter (I get the kind that still has some salt in it) and a teaspoon of flavored diet jello powder and some liquid sweetener. It doesn't have to be a perfect mix. Then, in custard cups, put 1/3 cup of whipped cream and swirl in the p.b. cream cheese mixture. Cover with saran wrap and pop in the freezer for a while. When you take it out it is like eating frozen strawberry cheesecake and it's so rich you just need a tiny bit to feel full and satisfied.
When I make my low carb veggies, I make them as luxurious as I possibly can. No more WW style green beans with lemon juice. Boooorrrrrring! I mince up some garlic and saute until golden in a good chunk of melted butter. Do not brown. Then pour it over tender-crisp cooked fresh green beans. Season with salt and pepper and you've got a feast. When you have brocolli or cauliflower, don't be skimpy with the butter or the melted real cheese. No more fat free crap.
This is not a diet of deprivation unless you convince yourself that it is. This is a truly gourmet way to eat. This is the way the wealthy Edwardians ate in the 1900s. Did you ever read their menus? Of course it helped that they had scads of servants. Anyhow, they ate a LOT of meat, cream, cheese, fish, butter, etc. Course after course of them. Veggies seemed to be merely decorative. I'm not saying we should or could eat like that now. (who could afford it?) but even without the tight corsets, I bet there weren't too many fat women. All the fat they ate kept them sated so they didn't crave sweets and sweets became a treat instead of something that was expected with every meal.
I'm a carb addict and it was nothing for me to sit down and eat a whole pound of chocolate at one sitting. I'm not proud of that fact but it's true. I would feel sick as a dog after but once I started it was very hard to quit. Now, could you imagine sitting down and eating a whole pound of butter? No way. That's why just a few extra teaspoons of fat throughout your day can help keep you from wanting those forbidden (for now) carbs.
Fat is good!