I understand how and why sizes have changed over the years (size 10 being the average size, and the average size is getting larger...), but man, the lack of anything approching a standard for sizing bugs me too! There are certain manufacturers and brands that I prefer to wear because they fit my shape best (very hourglass, but a fat hourglass), but other brands shouldn't be so far off that I'm wearing thing two or three sizes bigger or smaller than normal.
I had to buy a lot of new clothes recently because many of my old ones were really starting to look way too baggy. I'm a thin 14 right now, but in addition to the size 12-14 stuff I bought, I also bought a size 8 skirt (stretchy knit, but it looks nice), two size 10 dresses, a couple of size 16 pants, and even a size 18 skirt (a *tiny* bit big, but adjustable and I loved it). It took me hours and hours in the dressing rooms to try on three different sizes for everything, to find out what fitted. What the heck? How can any industry justify such a wide divergence in sizes?
I had to buy DH some new pants too, as he has also lost more than 20 pounds, but for him it was soooo easy. I went into the store (DH is violently allergic to shopping), grabbed four different size 34 waist pants, pay, go home. He tries them on and they *all* fit perfectly. I didn't know weather to cheer or cry!
But - we both feel great with the big mental pick-me-up from all the nice new clothes.
BP