Ooohhh .. Jif and Karen! Belated thanks for the research! I always wondered who the
“they” is who make all these pronouncements. Gotta say that I’m not real impressed with how this translates to all the rest of us. OK, let’s ditch the 95% number — it’s meaningless anyway, since we all have the power to control our own destinies. It’s not like a certain number of us are preordained to regain weight. I believe with all my heart that every one of us can keep the weight off for the rest of our lives
if we so choose.
I’ve been thinking a lot about maintenance lately, sparked especially by some correspondence with the lovely Jif.
I told her (and I’ll repeat myself here) if I were to write a book about maintaining a weight loss, I’d call it
Now Comes The Hard Part. Regardless of how we get the weight off or how long it takes, we’re all pretty much in the same boat in keeping it off. I’m willing to bet that we’re all pretty good at weight loss since we’ve all done it so often.
It’s the keeping it off that’s the hard part. Now I’ll never lie to someone and say that losing weight is easy — it’s hard, sweaty work. But so is maintenance and no one ever talks about this part.
So many weight loss plans end when you reach your goal weight. And that’s why so many of us end up gaining the weight back. This is for life for every one of us. I was guilty of living in a fantasy world where I thought that I could eat what I wanted (and not gain) when I got to goal because somehow I’d be cured of all my eating issues.
Wow! If I only weighed 135 pounds, I just know that I’d never binge eat again! I’d never want to eat a dozen cookies again! I’d never eat when I wasn't hungry! I’d delicately pick at salads and pass by desserts effortlessly.
Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid. I’m still the same person with the same eating issues — just in a smaller body.
Let’s imagine that
“they” have invented the Magic Weight Loss pill. You take it at bedtime and poof! you wake up in the morning having lost all the weight. What then??? I don't know about you guys, but I would have eaten a bag of Oreos to celebrate.
In other words, I wouldn’t have learned a darn thing about keeping the weight off. Losing the weight is the dress rehearsal for the Big Show — keeping it off for the rest of our lives. So we have to take everything that we learned about losing weight and use it every day to maintain our weight.
What good would it do any of us to get the weight off without the tools and skills and knowledge to keep it off? Karen’s written before about her experiences with the Optifast diet — as part of a study, they got a lot more support than most yet still 95% couldn’t keep the weight off (correct me if I’m wrong with any of this, Karen!) It’s damn hard even with all the support in the world.
But it’s not impossible! And this takes me back to what I started off with — this is within our power. I’m so sad when I hear a heavy woman say that she
“can’t” lose weight. I want to grab her and say “of course you can if you so choose!” It’s all a matter of choices. Do I eat choose to eat this cookie? Do I choose to go the gym? Do I choose to plan my meals the night before? Do I choose to weigh and measure my food and make a cult out of Fitday?
True, we may not
WANT to make the choices necessary to lose weight (and that’s everyone’s prerogative, of course). But we
CAN do it.
If we’ve made all the right choices and have lost the weight, then it’s totally within our power to keep making those right choices and keep the weight off for life. Regardless of any statistics. One of the reasons that I joined the National Weight Loss Registry is to help establish new statistics for weight maintenance. How about we make this group the 100% Club — 100% of us keep the weight off for life? (hey, maybe
"they” would come and study us!)