HI my name is christina and I am new and would like to find someone in the same boat as me to buddy up with .......I am 225 right now the highest in my life even when I was 9 months pregnant didnt weigh that much ....well my kids are 3 and 5 and I think I really need to get serious cause I ever since I had them I was gonna start to diet tomorrow ....you know how that is ......I have lost a few times but as soon as I lost the initial seriousness I gained it all back ......getting on a scale anymore is enough to bring tears to my eyes and trying to dress up for a night out is like a traumatizing event because I dont ever feel like I look nice ........I am so tired of feeling this way and I rally want to change ......I dont wanna be this way and my biggest fear is that if I dont get serios and start to lose that I will continue to slowly gain and I am so scared of where I will end up .....The last time that I really lost was while I was a member of this site and then I qiut for a year and here I am right back where I started ......soo my quest is to find some buddies like I did the last time and thsi time I am not gonna quit .,........Well I am off to clean house and do some laundry .....
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Hi Christina!! I could have written your post. I so know how you are feeling. I get physically ill. My stomach turns every time I have to weigh myself. and I never go anywhere because I have nothing to wear and I don't even have the self confidence to go shopping for clothes.
You can do this!! I hope you find all of the support you need here. A group of ladies that recently started here started a thread in "support groups" it is called "newbies supporting each other" I think. Oh no I can't remember. Anyway, the thread with the link is in the buddy up section it says Newbies lets start a new group. Anyway, if you would like you could join us. I think you would get a lot of support.
Hiya, I'm Chrissy and I'm in PA also I'm at the highest I have ever been in my life and am so ready to be under 200 lbs ! I'd be glad to be your buddy, I can use all the help I can get.....dieting really is not fun....especially with little kids around and all the goodies they have.
I'm Ann, mother of two (1 1/2 and 4) and also at my highest ever. New to this site, and I saw myself when I read your post. I just joined WW again, and I'm determined not to quit until I reach my goal weight.
I'm a bridsmaid at a wedding in Septemper and too scare to even imagine how I would look standing there in front of everyone. I too hate to dress up and haven't bought much clothes recently because nothing seems to fit well anyway.
I also want to lose weight for my kids so that they don't get tease because of me.