Hi Rebekah. I'm also a WW member. When I started I was almost 300 pounds (and I'm not tall). I had knee problems, hip problems, T2 diabetes, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol. I was a mess. It's been about five months, I'm down almost fifty pounds (need to update stats here!). My knees don't hurt, my hips don't hurt, my A1C, cholesterol, and bp are all in a healthy range and I'm on half the meds I was on before. In five months. I feel SO DIFFERENT and so much better. I wish I had known five months ago that a totally different life was not that far away. I didn't even know how tired I was and how bad I felt until I felt better. All of this to say, changes add up.
WW is not really set up for deep, personal sharing. I think it's a time constraint as much as anything. In my meeting, we tend to stick to things that might apply to everyone and everyone is LOVELY but no one is sharing really deep, personal stuff. There just isn't time. I have noticed a lot of people in my meeting who tend to be sharers also mention that they go to OA, which seems to encourage a more personal, emotional kind of sharing. Have you considered that? WW is a wonderful weight loss program and I have found everyone to be incredibly supportive and kind, but it just isn't set up for a more, IDK, group therapy type situation. I don't think the leaders have that kind of training.
Connect is also a great reasource, although it took me a minute (or week) to get the hang of it. A lot of people find a lot of support there. It's a very active community.
As for exercise, I'll be totally honest - I walk a few days a week. If I miss a week, it doesn't make any difference in my weight loss. I do it because it's good for my heart and my blood sugar, but it is totally possible to just do WW without exercise until you get to a point where your body feels comfortable with activity. If someone had expected me to walk or run the first month or so when my knees and hips still ached, there is no way I'd still be doing WW. I think people who don't have chronic pain don't understand what they're asking when they expect you to just suffer through.
I'm not an expert and I hope I don't sound like a know-it-all but I'm excited to find another WWer who isn't trying to lose fifteen pounds (my meeting is full of people who are trying to lose fifteen or twenty pounds and I wish them ALL the best, but it's hard to relate when you know that you have to lose fifteen pounds like ten times).
Good luck! Hang in there!
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