Welcome to 3FC!!
Look around and settle in. We have a 30 something forum and lots of subforums based on nutrition plans and exercise. Stick around and post often!
What are your plans for food and exercise?
We also have forums for folks with different amounts to lose---check out the 100lb Club and the 300 lb Clubs for great advice and support from women and men who might understand your concerns more than your lightweight friend.