Hey Essence -
One of the things this site has taught me more than anything else is that we are ALL different. Low carb works for a lot of people. For me? It does nothing. NOTHING. I've tried, it doesn't work. So no, the same plan does NOT work the same for everyone.
So maybe its time to investigate something a little different...South Beach, Calorie Counting...the world is your oyster. So you might want to consider it.
We have lots of forums here, by eating plan, age range, amount to lose...look around, find a spot, settle in...and keep posting! Can't wait to get to know you better!