New, I need your help to do this

  • Hi Everyone,

    I just joined this site today.

    I really really want this. I have 2 days of healthy eating. I need to lose 75 lbs. I have used food to deal with stress for some time. I feel awful, look older than my age right now and need an attitude adjustment. Also, I have been drinking wine daily to deal with stress. I stopped that too.

    I need all of you. I try to do it alone and it does not work for very long. I need exercise. One thing at a time though.

    Yes, I am a semi lunatic right now. I want to overeat and drink wine. But I'm not going to do that.

    I want my life back. I want to have a life and live it healthy.

    Help me help myself, please.

    Rea from Rhode Island
    224.5/224/150
  • Hi Rea

    Of course you don't have to do this alone!! I, too, want to eat and drink wine (lots and lots of wine!), but I know that won't get me anywhere in reaching the goals I set for myself (at least, this is the mantra I repeat- over and over and over again...)

    It's not *totally* full proof, but you'll find that after a while exercise is just as effective (and more) at relieving stress. So yes, I agree, you do need exercise

    What other changes would you like to make?
  • Another wine lover here You CAN do this! 3FC is a great resource to help you! Come back often!!

    I look forward to reading your posts.
  • Rea

    Just keep taking it day by day, it will get easier!
    You will find alot of support on this site, everyone understands the struggles you are going through!

    Stacey
  • Rea,

    Hi, we are all here for you. We all know your struggle and can relate to whatever it is you are feeling. All is discussed here--never be ashamed to seek the answers. I wanted my life back too. Dig deep inside, muster your energy and kick some booty. WELCOME.
  • Rea, take a deep breath and let it out. You are going to do fine. We are all here to help you through this just remember that sweetie